2006-06-24 18:53:09 · 16 answers · asked by Liz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is a chance that he could love you and be faithful to you, but if he isn't there are plenty of guys out there that like big girls. I should know. I am fat but my husband doesn't like skinny girls. He loves women with large breasts and big butts, but I am lacking in the rear!!!
2006-06-24 18:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 - "fantasy girl".... Most men NEVER get the fantasy girl, that's why they are just fantasies.
#2- Sure, he can be failthful and love you regardless of your weight. Love isn't based on how much someone weighs. There's alot of shallow men out there, but there are also men who prefer bigger women, and ones who don't care the size, they look at what's on the inside too.. Which is the way it should be. But men who cheat, really don't do it because of the woman's weight. There are usually other reasons (shallow callus reasons, but just the same..)Have confidence in yourself and be happy with the way you are . Men like confident women, and it shows if you are or aren't. I am a firm believer there is someone for everyone, and as long as your boyfriend loves you he will be faithful, and your weight won't matter .
2006-06-25 02:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Tam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't define you as being his number one girl for being the girl you are..no matter what shape or form you're in, then you shouldn't be with him. Things happen to people...you gain weight from having a baby, you could get in a bad car accident - the point is a boyfriend should love you regardless of how you look.
Sure, it's normal for a boyfriend to have fantasies about celebrities and such. That's perfectly fine. But, you should never have to feel you're not good enough because of your size because that's absolutely false. You can find someone whose fantasy girl would be you.
2006-06-25 01:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by FreeBird4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not fat but i do believe there are many men out there who will love us for us and not our bodies~The fantasy girl thing is really just a fantasy meaning its not real~ If your boyfriend loves you, just be yourself because thats what made him love you in the first place.
2006-06-25 03:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look first thing is any man or girl chooses their partner based on some imagination and fantasies as u mentioned.So even u wud like to select a person of ur dreams ...coming to being faithful yes if someone really loves the other for watever he/she is then they will always be faithful
2006-06-25 02:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by Adi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks really don't matter as much as you think!
I know plenty of fat happy women who have boyfriends and husbands who love them regardless. Stop worrying! Everyone can't be skinny!
2006-06-25 01:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by rowdygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! Like I said to that guy who asked another question about being cheated on.....Looks don't have anything to do with whether or not someone will cheat on you. Halle Berry, Denise Richards, Liz Hurley, etc. have been cheated on, and it for dam* sure wasn't because of their looks!
2006-06-25 01:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but if someone is fat it doesnt mean their not someones fantasy.
2006-06-25 01:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by vegasgirlimmmhot 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He can still love you if u're fat. unfortunately he won't find you very sexually attractive though, and that may encourage him to cheat.
2006-06-25 02:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by Ri 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's obviously attracted to you for some reason if you're his girlfriend. :O)
2006-06-25 01:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by formerlypth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋