am i wrong.?

Question

am i wrong for looking for someone when my husband is using online dating sites and i am not suppose to know about them. have my eye on one but he wants to be just friends right now so fair or not

i am not going through a divorce i am still married with a 1 1/2 yr old and my eye is set on someone we both know

Answer 1

Fair!

Answer 2

Yes I do believe you are wrong...as much as i would say he is wrong for what he is doing or if the tables were turned. it is not fair cause you both are being untruthful and dishonest.. an eye for an eye is not female empowerment so much as it isn't all power to the man... you guys are married.. and if you two can't seem to talk and work through stuff then who the hell do you expect to do it for you...be a woman and confront the issue... ask him about the sites and why is he doing it... with your situation.. lay off it... and quickly... if your marriage ain't working out then get it over and done with before you move on... if you go the route you're describing there's nothing but heart ache, pain, doubt, regrets and disappointment waiting for both of you ahead... I know this might have come off a bit stern but i really do sincerely hope it helps and good luck... feel free to update me if you like....

Answer 3

Cheating is cheating. If he jumps off a bridge will you do the same? This sounds like a total 8th grade question to me. Have the balls to confront him about what he is doing and try to work on your relationship if you want to stay married to him. If he doesn't want to cooperate then have the balls to leave. If you have a child, you should care enough for that child to not be setting this kind of a crappy example. Married people should be married, not dating other people. If you want to be dating then you should be SINGLE!

Answer 4

I am not clear with your question you need to elaborate more.

If it is that you are going through a divorce or not ?
Are you and your husband just having a normal relationship.
Is he checking on other girls through the internet and not letting you know about them.
Whom have you eye on and who wants be just friends ?

Smile always

Answer 5

I would say you are wrong. Not that you are the villan here, but revenge is never good. You need to talk to your husband, CALMLY, and lovingly and tell him you love him and miss him. Don't tell him you know yet, just show him extra love. It's sounds hard because it's the total opposite of what you FEEL like doing. I hope everything works out.

Answer 6

Totally fair

Answer 7

Two wrong thing does not necessarily make One thing right, therefore both of you STOP what you all doing and come to the table, act like grownup and resolve this matter now before it gets out of control.

Good Luck...!!!

Answer 8

Yep u r wrong. Your husbad is too. You got married, that commited you to him and he to you for the rest of your lives, FOR BETTER OR WORSE, IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH, SO LONG AS YOU BOTH SHALL LIVE!!!!!! He needs to refocus his roving eye and you need to help him with that and make sure you refocus your roving eye too.

Answer 9

You are both wrong. If you love him fight for him and make it work. Marriage is work. If you are no longer in love and he is not worth fighting for - end it. Instead of lying and cheating - end it and move on. Good luck.

Answer 10

no your not wrong at all, is doing that he is prob. cheating on you. he is suppose to be your husband not your friend you should confront him about that. or maybe you should dump him if he wants to do that to you.but you listen to your heart!!!!!!!!!

-Good luck