2006-06-24 18:42:05 · 16 answers · asked by svenentchen 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
"Honey, we'll both be careful", you say as you flip her over, kissing her back.
As your p*nis pushes teasingly over her buttocks, you reassure her that you'll be gentle.
And inform her, "It will be the most uncomfortable at first, but help me push past that and you will love it! Come on, now Baby, push......" Keep reassuring her you are being careful and you will follow her lead. Kiss her and stroke her gently. The more relaxed she is, the better for her--and you.
And don't leave out finger stimulation for her front, big boy.
2006-06-24 19:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by garayfive 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You dont. That is her decision. If she doesnt want to, that is her call. She needs to be the one to say its ok. If she is saying no...dont pressure her. While yes it is a different sensation and some people do like it, it can be very painful too, especially if you dont know what you are doing or she is not relaxed. Not only that but the tissue in the anus and rectum are very delicate. You cant just go to town on it like you see in porn. It tears easily and a lot of woman can and do bleed if its not done right, well lubricated or if she just cant relax.
Let her be the one to tell you if she wants it or not. If she is against it, leave the subject alone. It will only make her feel pressured to do it and it won't be an enjoyable experience for her.
2006-06-24 18:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by southrntrnzplnt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the poor girl alone if she doesn't want anal sex, you have someone to put there p**** up your back side and see how it feels, then you might realise the pain the poor girl will go through
2006-06-24 19:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by another_day63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT miss your vagina accidentally. That hurts like hell and you will NEVER get her to have anal with you. NEVER EVER like that. Unless you two are very serious, like marriage material, then I suggest that you leave the issue alone. You need to seriously talk about it and ask if she wants to feel your finger in her @ss, when he answer is no, then don't bring it up again. If she's not sure, then leave it alone....she approach you about it if she ever wants it.
2006-06-25 04:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by virtuouskelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you shouldn't force her into having anal sex. She needs to be ready for it. You should also be willing to let her stimulate you anally as well. She might be more willing if you let her do it to you as well.
2006-06-26 14:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by misses e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anal sex can cause health problems. You should leave her alone.
2006-06-25 03:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by squirrel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really doesn't want to or is just not ready, don't pressure her. A woman is incharge of her own body. If you pressure her, chances are that she will dump you.
2006-06-24 19:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is a conversation between two ..u must speak the same language
2006-06-24 18:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by ghadoud2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't she has to make the decision on her own whether or not she feels comfortable doing that with you.
2006-06-24 20:02:17 · answer #9 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend didn't ask, he just did it. I let him because I know he likes it, however I hate it and it does not feel good, even with lubricant.
2006-06-26 05:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by Rikki-Tikki-Tavi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋