My friend thinks his ex lied to him about a miscarraige and it is bothering him not knowing this is what he told me they lived together and she was on the pill he used a condom and pulled out everytime and she had no problems or was sick or anything and one day she walked out the door and came back about 1 hr and a half to two hours later and said she was 10 wks pregnant and miscarried she said it was twins a boy and a girl is it possible what do you think I have never had one so I don't know what to tell him please help he thinks she might have lied to him to keep the relationship going or to get him to marry her what do you think?
2006-06-24 18:26:40 · 20 answers · asked by poohbear85 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
She may have been pregnant, but there's no way she could have known the sexes of the twins.. Ultrasounds won't pick up the sex until around 16 weeks gestation.
2006-06-24 18:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off if she did have a miscarriage that is one thing, but at only 10 weeks you can't tell a boy from a girl if you are having 1 baby never mind multiples, they are generally smaller anyway. And second if he can't trust her anymore since it seems that she lied twice on this subject, will get to that in a sec, he has no reason to marry her, if she was still pregnant that is a different situation. Now on to the second lie, it sounds more like she went and had an abortion if she was only gone for a little while, if she had a miscarriage she would have been in the hospital for a couple days to monitor bleeding and make sure everything is okay. I don't think that having a miscarriage will keep them together, if anything it could split them up faster.
2006-06-25 01:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, at ten weeks you can't tell the sex of a baby -- or babies for that matter. So whether or not she miscarried has nothing to do with the fact that she lied about the sex. I have learned from experience that you can get pregnant even when you think you're taking every precaution. So I guess it is possible. But considering she isn't being straight about the babies sex, I am guess she is making this up.
but, if he has to question her truthfulness, then the relationship is doomed anyway. He should get out or go to counseling... with her of course.
2006-06-25 01:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by mom_overboard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She lied. There is no way that she would have been able to find out the sex of both of them at 10 weeks, you can't even tell the sex of a single baby in 10 weeks, and being that twins are smaller than single babies then it's impossible. She's a liar and he needs to get away from her.
2006-06-25 03:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by guineawuv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah she was lying. If she had a ''miscarraige'', she would not have known the sex of the baby(s). The only way to know the childs gender is if she was further into the pregnancy to the point where he could actually see her stomach poking out, and to lose the baby(s) then, would be considered a ''still birth''.
2006-06-25 01:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that that girl is CRAZY did she come back with any form of evidence? that should tell you something... If it was that bad why didnt she call him to the hospital... If i thought i was losin my baby i would be callin my man first thing i think he should kick her to the side and look for someone HONEST and not sick enough to lie about losing an innocent baby.... girls can be crazy i know this one girl STEPHANIE and she carried around this picture of a lil boy and told me and everyone that it was her and this other guys baby but come to find out she cant even have kids.... umm how sick... maybe those two should be friends....
2006-06-25 01:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by mama lesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was lying. A woman can only find out the gender of her baby at around 18 weeks of pregnancy, although my ultrasound clinic wants to wait until I am 19 weeks pregnant to get an ultrasound to check the gender.
2006-06-25 01:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by Jade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she was lying. There is no way that she could have known what the sex of the "babies" were after 10 weeks of pregnancy, much less known it was twins. People don't usually find out the sex of their babies until about 5 months.
2006-06-25 01:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by sdfem23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definettly a lie
look a baby at 10 weaks will be about as big as ur finger nail
about like 2inches 4 GODS sake u cant tell then
i didnt know if my baby sis was a gurl untill last week, and my mom is 7 months pregnant
2006-06-25 01:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a liar and I suggest he ditch the b*tch! There is NO possible way to even find out the sex of babies until around 18-20 weeks!! He needs to dump her, that is a pathetic and desperate attempt at trying to keep a relationship going....shes stupid!
2006-06-25 03:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋