i am currently on a relationship, we've been together for more that four years now. no doubt i love her with all my life.
last week, after a game, something happened to me and one of my basketball team mate, i didnt knew he's gay, it happened only once.
but i must say, i liked it (somehow)...
what should i do?
2006-06-24 17:52:38 · 11 answers · asked by wolf 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
If you love your gf, and you have a good sexual relationship, then you're probably not gay. You may be bisexual. Its up to you to decide what holds the most for you, not just sexually, but emotionally. There are people who will say that same sex relationships are wrong, and you should be aware that if you make this choice, you will face prejudice over it. But they do happen, and its natural to be attracted to someone of your own sex, even if you've never felt the urge to act on it. Attraction happens many ways.
As for enjoying it? Men are designed to enjoy sex. Women can have sex and not orgasm - men generally do. If you are the one being penetrated, then it is stimulating your prostate, and though it might be uncomfortable, this can cause you to orgasm. Its the emotional bit you need to consider.
You also need to talk to your girlfriend. You cheated on her, because you had sex with another person. She shouldn't hear this from someone else. Regardless what you decide, this may end your relationship.
2006-06-24 19:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by xena_warrior_cow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry kiddo...and certainly don't be ashamed....i don't think it really matters if you messed around with a guy or a girl or whatever...the fact of the matter is...u should be asking ur self how much u really love this girl if ur willing to cheat on her at all in the first place.....it doesn't matter who it was with....it just matters that u did it.....and you should really sit down and think about urself...everyone gets curious and majority of people expiriment at one time or another.....if u've had feeling toward other guys before and they are strong and persistent feelings then most likely ur bisexual....or even gay....and thats who you are....and if u can't love yourself then who will love u?
2006-06-25 02:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by JRsGirlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be bisexual. Might be just curious. You need to explore it and set it right in your mind.one way or the other. With a little more experience under your belt (heh) you then examine what you think of when you masturbate., That is your answer.
Good luck! Being gay or bi isnt all that bad :)
2006-06-25 00:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by eddie9551 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young.....like a teenager. Sexuality is complex at your age because you have more hormones right now than you'll ever have again in your life time. It is COMPLETELY normal to be attracted to both sexes- male and female at your age. Keep your options open. You don't have to be gay or straight.........that choice or revelation will come to you in time. No matter what- be safe.......safe sex and safe people....ok?
2006-06-25 01:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by mrb1666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the real issue is you cheating on your girl friend. You should fix that before trying making sense of your orientation.
2006-06-25 01:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its in our nature to sin, or want to. You don't want to loose that relationship with your girl tho, do ya? If you truly love her, then youll stay away fro that kindof deathstyle.
2006-06-25 00:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by BlueSpider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it some time and weigh out would you rather be with her or be with a guy. Maybe your Bisexual? I dont know...
2006-06-25 01:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened to you guys? Did you make out? Have sex?
You could be bisexual!
2006-06-25 00:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by n/a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't be ashamed of your gayness... but i'd say talk to your girlfriend about it... It's not fair to her if you like someone else.
2006-06-25 01:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by ash6lei2a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can decide this. go with your heart and you have to talk to your girlfriend. you don't want her to find out from someone else. this is going to devastate her.
2006-06-25 00:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by dedee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋