is it possible to fall in love at age 13 or 12??

Question

is it possible to fall in love in either of those ages??

also did u fall in love at those ages??

the last thing i said is for adults

Answer 1

I DID!! I WAS 13 WHEN I MEET MY BOYFRIEND AND WE GOT MARRYED WHEN WE WERE 21 AND I AM 24 NOW.

Answer 2

It's still a young age. And sadly most all of the relationships don't last and lead to heartbreak...the very few that last, very fortunate and a blessing.

It's normal to feel that way, but don't get overly consumed with a boy and have him as a distraction.

What I noticed is when you fall in love when you're young you think it's forever...that this is the only person you'll ever love in your life,...and if it doesn't work, you vow to wait for them to return and you will never love another person again....Thank the Lord!!...I'm glad I'm creeping up on 30 and no longer think that way!!

Because what I've learned is in life you can fall in love many times. I don't know if that's a good or bad thing...it's good because your heart can love again after being broken...bad, that it can't be this story book love story that lasts forever with your first love.

Focus more on school than boys...look around and be observant, open your eyes and ears and pay attention-how many break ups you'll see...how many times a girl falls in love...with two, three different boys. Learn from that.

I have learned you need to understand love. Love can be very complicated, it's not just a feeling you have inside. It's about commitment, respect, honesty, balance, and many young people are still too immature and inexperienced to give all that. You need to know what you want and find someone who wants the same qualities.

Like I said, it's normal to feel this way but more than likely it is infactuation at this age. But sit back and observe and learn.

And when in love...it is always wise to use your brain and not go by your feelings...many times people will not leave a bad person because of their feelings because they "love" that person...in that scenerio, if they used their brain they would see it wasn't love and would leave.

Take Care.

Answer 3

Yes, it's entirely to possible to fall in love with a person at that age. The question isn't whether you can or not but what to do about it. Most people think a young adult can't fall in love because they aren't done developing mentally but love isn't dependent on your physical condition, it's about emotional development. The trouble with falling in love at this age, as I know from experience, is not being taken seriously by adults and moving to quickly within the relationship. The best way to get people to take you seriously is to act maturely and show everyone that you aren't irrational and immature and can make responsible choices concerning the relationship. Move slowly, don't let the relationship consume you or affect your school work and most importantly wait until you are older to have sex. There is nothing wrong with sex but it's a major step that should be taken only when you are equipped to handle it. If your relationship becomes physical at this point people will assume that you are in lust rather than love and that your motivations are driven by hormones and not a real understanding of what it means to be in love. Love isn't something you're IN, it's something you DO. If you really love someone you do what's best for them even when it hurts and even when it's hard. So if you really are in love you'll take this relationship seriously and not do anything to jeopardize it. I wish you the best of luck in your relationship hun and remember, true love is forever so don't try to do it all in one day! Good luck and blessings, Prana

Answer 4

Have you never read Romeo and Juliet?? a woeful tale of star crossed lovers........not much older than 13. Whatever. At 12 and 13 you need to be kids. and stop trying to grow up so fast. go to school, play with your friends, pick flowers and dangle your feet in the water with your best friend and gossip about this and that. Don't worry so much about boys. Young kids today have no clue about how to be children. You have time enough to be adults. So enjoy your childhood while you can. Because once you are an adult then you have the constant strain of work, bills, and worrying about your own children trying to grow up to fast. But to answer your question, love, no. infatuation yes.. I had the biggest crush on a boy when i was 14.

Answer 5

Yes, it is possible. And it could turn into a meaningful relationship and not be just puppy love. It happened for me.
I was 13 the first (and only) time I ever fell in love. I am now 30 and we are still together (almost 17 years)

Oh.. My Mom and Dad started dating when they were 13, too. They married at 18 and were married 20 years until my dad died.

So, it is very possible. (or maybe it just runs in my family ..lol)

Answer 6

Yes and no. You can be "in love" when you're 12-13. But when you're 12-13 it really depends on who you are saying you love, if it is a guy who you have known for a while then maybe you have fallen in love. I for example have said i was "in love" a few times, but i wasn't. My friend for example fell "in love" when she was eleven, she still loves him and shes 14. the only problem is he broke up with her, but it's real love. I don't know if this is at all helping answer your question, but i'm trying my best to get my point across. So yes it is possible. But no because no one really knows what love is anymore. i dont know if you noticed but people use the word love a little too loosely and a little too much. way too many people fall in love but fall out. too many peopple get divoced. so to answer your question. yes.

Answer 7

It is possible to love someone at that age, but it's not the same kind of love you're going to feel for the person you marry. It's hard to explain because at 13 that's the biggest kind of love you've ever felt. It's hard to imagine that you can feel an even bigger love, but you really will. Does that make any sense?

Answer 8

No. Truly falling in love requires many years of knowing someone intimately once they have grown into the person they'll always be. At 12 and 13, people are still developing into individuals seperate from their families. Since they don't know themselves completely, no one else can know them completely, so they can't be in love.

But you know what you can be at 12 and 13?

Impassioned!!! Intriqued!!! Smitten!!! "Crushing"!!!

With the most excitement and nervousness you'll ever feel.

Because everything is a new feeling now. You've never been fooled or disappointed or hurt, or any of the things that make adults wary of new relationships.

Enjoy this time of your life. You only get this time once and it's terrific. It only lasts a couple of years, and it really is a fun time in your path to adulthood.

Answer 9

Yeah of course you can be in love at 12 or 13, love doesn't have age limits.

Answer 10

Well, alot of people your age may think that they are in love but most of the times it just a crush, which can feel the same as love. I don't believe that 12 or 13 year olds can truely know what makes up real love though.

Answer 11

What a couple feels early in the relationship is usually not love, but "infatuation". Some people call it "new relationship energy". It's simply the excitement that someone likes you back. Love takes a long time to create, it doesn't happen in just a few days or weeks. It takes years. So be careful not to confuse love with "infatuation".