2006-06-24 17:29:13 · 53 answers · asked by sexylips 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Best friends do not sleep with your ex! It's unheard of! If someone you thought was your best friend and they did that....you were mislead!
2006-07-08 16:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Technically possible...:) emotionally damaging :( since you have already asked the question, sooner or later the friendship is likely to fizzle out! But if she was such a good friend, I dont think she would have put you into such a situation. But it can also be that they are truly in love and your friend values your friendship too and may be she is asking herself ''WHAT HAVE I DONE?!! . May be you should show the courage that she didnt have and just speak to her about the whole situation which will help you understand the whole situation better...understand her better ...and moreover come to a conclusion where your friendship stands after this. Challenges and circumstances are what makes us all stronger in life...but you will never know your strength of character unless you face it head on! So hope you will speak to your friend before making any decisions!
2006-06-24 18:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by aleandan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. For starters if they are your ex....you have no control over their sex life. Who are you or him to say who each other can see? Just because you couldn't stay together for whatever reason doesn't mean that maybe your best friend and them wouldn't be perfect for each other. If you are seriously considering losing a friendship over an ex, then obviously your love for your ex is still very much with you. And if that is the case, you seriously need to work through that either with him or alone.
2006-06-24 17:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he is ur ex, why would u really care that much. It's her problem now. Not yours. You can always warn her or be mad at her, but i would never break a friendship just cuz she slept with ur ex
2006-07-08 16:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by Eng 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Best friends would naturally like the same things. You could actually give advise to keep them from avoiding the problems you had. It could end up being a match made in heaven with you as the angel.
2006-07-07 10:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Pey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the agreement you and your friend have together.
Personally, if you don't have an agreement, then I say as soon as you break up, your friends can have at him. What if they were meant to be together and you ruined it. You can't allow or disallow people to fall in love. But you could not stay friends with your friend if you choose. I wouldn't. You should be able to keep the issues separate.
2006-07-05 16:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by game buddee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...i had this prob before. She started gettin a crush on him after i broke up with him and she slept with him. At first i was mad cuz she did that, but as i was thinking, i realized that i broke up with him so hes open for the picking. And nothing would get between me and my friend. Now she is very happy with him and im glad for her. We are best friends forever and him and i are still good friends!
2006-06-24 17:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Perfectly Flawed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt be bestfriends with either of them because if they were ur bestfriend and he was urman he wouldnt have thought of doing such a thing so tell that person whose suppose to be ur bestfriend that u can no longer be friends because u cant trust them around nobody that u go with and if u continue to be friends with that person they would try to do the same thing to the next boyfriend thatyou will go with in the future
2006-06-24 17:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about your BEST friend would not sleep with your ex why do ppl use the term BEST so loosely i would not do anything to hurt any of my BEST friends i cherish them and would never betray them or them me that's a BEST FRIEND what you got is crappy sidekick who couldn't wait to have something of you they are probably envious of you as well don't ever look back at your friend or the lose ex neither one respected you .
2006-07-07 17:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all depends on whether the former relationship was a short kind of fling or a really long term relationship--if it was just a fling that happened long ago yes i would be friends, if was long term thing no, i doubt i would be friends because she would have known all the things that went on in the relationship
2006-07-05 08:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by dlgrl=me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋