My ex boyfriend hes 12 told me a 13 year old girl that he is gonna put butter on me and lick me from my thighs to my neck its sexy but what should I do before I might do something that I dont want to do like sex because mostly when I talk to him on the phone he brings up sex and makes me want to do it more every second what should i tell him to let him stop because he wont stop even thou i told him to stop
2006-06-24 17:25:13 · 22 answers · asked by T_claire 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Your 13 and hes 12 you all shouldn't even be thinking about that, your not a bad person, but there are better things to do. I say you dump him if it continues and then go to the mall with your friends, believe me by the time you get to be 16, he won't even remember you( not to be mean), Enjoy the time you have with your friends before boyfriends start ruining and controlling your life. You should confront him, he might say hes's sorry but don't believe him, its all a lie. Hope this helps
Good Luck, Chelsea
Chelsea
2006-06-24 17:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So he's 12? And how old are you? You have a couple of choices. One, tell him that you are not ready. But you've metioned that you already tried that. However, maybe you didn't come off as strong as you would have liked to. If he continues, try telling him again. Or you can just cut off your connections with him. He sounds like he is a bad influence and might get you stuck in a bad situation that you will not be able to reverse. Don't take chances with this guy. And that thing he told the other girl, it's probably just to make him sound sexier. I don't think that he'll do something like that. But no guarantees.
2006-06-25 02:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your school, parents, counselor, and whoever else you can think of that he is harassing you. Specifically, he is sexually harassing you and no one should take it lightly, especially if it is making you uncomfortable. The worst thing you can do is nothing. You should make a big deal out of this because it is a big deal. If you doesn't stop at no, he obviously does not respect you period. Second, this is your EX boyfriend. Do yourself a favor and stop talking to him. In short, stop having any relationship with him until he realizes what he is doing is wrong and he should stop. This may take months not weeks. Either way, get other people involved like teachers, counselors, parents, and protective/helpful friends.
2006-06-25 00:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by N P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you uncomfortable tell him to stop talking about that. No means no. and stop means stop. And I agree with one of the other answerers. Ask him if he has ever heard of Statutory rape. And if he continues you can always get back at him by calling his mother and tell her what he is up to. I guarantee he will stop then. Besides you are only 13. concentrate on your education. Graduate from high school, go to college, then think about boys and sex. No one wants a stupid wife. And if you need any help in the whole taking care of a baby at 13. I'll lone you my 3 youngest. They will change your mind about ever wanting to have sex before you are married.
2006-06-25 00:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your ex boyfriend, consider WHY he's your ex boyfriend. If you ended it you must have had a good reason and if he ended it then why would you want to waste your time on him. First of all, I'd stop taking his phone calls. He can't talk sex if you don't pick up the phone. And please, please, please know that sex isn't just an activity for people to do together. It really does have a higher purpose. I'm not trying to talk down to you, I just feel sad when I hear guys and girls talking about having sex the way they talk about going to the movies. Like there's nothing to it.
2006-06-25 00:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, STOP, you're way to young to be thinking about sex. Focus on other things like your education or playing sports. Believe me, you don't want to open up that can of worms at this young age. Stop trying to act like an adult and act like the preteen that you are. I know that your horomones must be surging right now but do you really want to bring a child into the world that you can't possibly take care of? Think about it.
2006-06-25 00:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF....!!
goodness you guys are only pre teens, things like that should be off the board...
you know what T claire, here's a fact,
according to surveys, most of the cheating boyfriends are those who admitted that they started having sex at the age of 12-14
most cases of young fathers, with un successful status are those losers like of your ex boyfriend
so if i were you... better get rid of him if you dont wanna get pregnant early, of be sorry in the future
2006-06-25 00:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap! I swear, you kids need to stop thinking about sex so much! Don't talk to this kid. He's clearly got some problems.
Butter?! How is butter sexy?
2006-06-25 00:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be a thirteen year old girl... Don't take any chances. You do not need to become a teenage mother. Sex is nothing to get excited about anyway. And babies cost alot of money.
2006-06-25 00:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Julie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are not interested in having sex right now. Let him know that if he doesn't stop talking about it you will find someone else.
2006-06-25 08:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋