i want to tell my boyfriend i might be pregnant what should i do???

Answer 1

Maybe wait until you have confirmed this fact, so that you can discuss it properly. No use getting all agitated over what if's and maybes

Answer 2

First find out for sure if you are pregnant.
Then if you are sit down with your parents and discuss the different senarios.
You know at 16 you are too young to be in this situation and it is a common situation.
At the same time it is a difficult one.The options are open to you abortion, adoption or destroying every chance that you will have for a normal life and education.Your simple actionof not using protection could very well have caused you many problems,If you find out from the doctor that you are not pregnant consider this situation you are in now and realize that you need to be more responsible.It is not the time for you to bring a child into the world and is totally unfair to you ,your parents and your child as you can not provide and make sure the child will have a good future.Talk to your parents and if you decide to keep the child which will be very foolish at the very least you should put the child up for adoption.
Talk to the boyfreind after you have decided what you want to do. It is your decision you alone must carry this child for nine months and go through the pain and miss oportunities in life that you otherwise could have.
Dont feel too bad I made the same mistakes when I was your age and wish now I would have done things differently.
Talk to your parents for guidence they will be there for you all your life boyfriends come and boyfriends go.It is so so unlikly that your boyfriend will end up being the one you end up spending your life with its rediculous to think that it could be it just never works out that way.
Trust your parents they have your best interest at heart,learn from them they have been through many of the things you are going through and if they havent gone through them they were smart enough to avoid the problems so even a better reason to listen to them.

Answer 3

Well I think it would be cruel to not tell him. He has a right to know. Even if your not sure, prepare him for the possible fact. Then if your no you can be ok and it wont be as huge of a shocker if you are. But it might be easier to find a way to ease it on to him. Like start with "Did you know that protection doesnt always work?" (If you used it) or "We should have used protection" if you didnt. Then move into "I'm a few days late". Then "I know this is really big and might take some thinking about but I'm 2 weeks late" then "I think I'm pregnent". Spread that out over a few days while you are confirming and if it turns out you really are then tell him. If you arent then dont just forget it. You should discuss what happened and what you would do if it wasnt a false alarm next time. It will be hard keeping it to yourself and its only fair to share with him. Good luck and it will be fine!

Answer 4

like other people said, you should confirm that you are and then tell him. Don't tell him unless you know for sure, because men sometimes take it as "crying wolf" when you aren't pregnant. He might think you are just trying to see what he would do or how he would react. If you find out you are not pregnant, I would suggest you protect yourself so this question doesn't come up again, because you should never have to wonder if you should tell the guy or not.

Answer 5

If he is a willing father, as in it wasn't an accident or he isn't against having children, blurt it out. Its better to tell him that you might be, than have him find out from reading this question or maybe your friends. If he isn't going to take pregnancy well, hint at the possibility of having kids, then tell him up front if it looks good or wait until you are 100% sure you are pregnant to tell him. I used the hinting to tell my husband we were pregnant since we didn't want kids at that early part of our marriage, it worked very well. Good luck.

Answer 6

First, Stay calm. Second, go to planned parenthood or your doctor for a pregnancy test. Third, find out the results. Then if you are. Bite the bullet and tell him. He has a right to know. But if you are not. I wouldn't say anything. Why cause him unnecessary stress. Just use better birth control.

Answer 7

Tell him you might be pregnant go to the doctors and find out together

Answer 8

take a test frist and find out there is no point worrying the crap outa him and making his mind go full speed until you know the answer correctly. if you not pregnant just say that u thought u where pregnant and u took a test but ur not. and if you are than tell u are

Answer 9

Don't tell him anything until you're sure. There's no point in getting his hopes up.. or freaking him out when you dont even know. Go to the doctor, or get an at home test and find out. Good luck.

Answer 10

I'd wait to find out for sure....although it's scary when you are waiting to find out alone, what if you tell him and you're not? He just may get a bit freaked out and might be scared off....men are hard to figure out, just when you think you know what they are going to do, they do the opposite....since you know him and we don't, that has to be an answer ONLY you can decide upon...good luck...

Answer 11

You should definitely tell him. First, I would get a confirmed pregnancy test from a clinic and find out for sure. If you are, tell him about it and talk to him. Decide together what you want to do. If he is the father, he deserves to know.