ever. i am the woman and we're coming terms with my new sexualty and man is amazingly supportive. we want advice that might help us iron out the creases. we have our boundaries and respect. serious replies please :0)
2006-06-24 16:45:09 · 4 answers · asked by tweets 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm not too sure about what you mean 'new' sexuality.
Have you decided you are bisexual/gay?
If that's the case, then you are very lucky to have a husband who, not only accepts, but also respects and supports you!
As for hel iron out the creases ... Not too sure of what you mean eithr but as you do say you have your boundaries and respect, would this mean time for you to bring a sexual partner? If it does, then maybe you should do that when your husband is not home! If you're only exploring your sexual needs then try not to bring too many people home, and if you're already in love with someone else then make a point of taking time and not impose your partner on your husband too soon.
He must love you very much to react as well as he hs so far but remember ... He is still a man, still your husband of 18 years so it can't be all too easy on him. he night tell you othrwise but deep down, i'm sure he's having his own doubts/worries and pain over the loss of 18 years with you as his wife.
Take it slow. Make a nice dinner from time to time so you can both sit and relax, enjoy togethernes because he is your best friend! You've a long history together and he knows you better than any other eventual partner!
Best wishes
2006-06-26 00:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
so what are u saying, that u are bi sexual and ur husband suports it or ur bf does, well thats cool, just make sure that its really ok with him because he is thinking of u and not looking at it like, there will be another woman for him to play with
2006-06-24 23:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If problem is not sre how to use or act with or about new found sexualaity, get the books called, "Kama Sutra", and, "Sexual Reflexology"..
2006-06-24 23:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by joann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you are coming to terms with your "new" sexuality???? What???
2006-06-24 23:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Michele S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋