I dont know why, i have never hit her or attempted to, but she calls me evil, and says she is scared that i will cause harm to her. I TOLD HER I WOULD NEVER HURT HER!
What do you think her problem is, i would never hit her, i think she has thought about hitting me but shedidnt cuz she thought i would hit her back.
Please dont report this, i just wnat to understand her.
2006-06-24 16:27:25 · 22 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think she may be bipolar, but no no fights never attempted to hurt her
I think she needs help but can i make her get it somehow?
2006-06-24 16:31:44 · update #1
I do have an anger problem and it is her!
2006-06-24 16:32:28 · update #2
I dont hang with bad people1
2006-06-24 16:33:39 · update #3
My sis had same prob doc told mom she needed help but saisd my sis would have to change
2006-06-24 16:34:36 · update #4
yes i was born without a dad because she divorced him , he ewas abusive
2006-06-24 16:36:20 · update #5
I am not a scary person have gone to the coumnceler and it made it worse, I have talked she just gets too jACKED OUT OF SHAPE
2006-06-24 16:40:06 · update #6
She sounds like she may be paranoid schizophrenic. Encourage her to see a doctor asap
2006-06-24 16:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by prince4816 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
My Opinion Is,
Based On What You Told In You Question,
I Think The Best Thing To Do Is Go To Counseling.
If You Aren't Showing Anger Problems ,
To Make Mum Afraid,
Then You Will Be Willing To Go To Counseling With Her.
It Could Be You ~ Or Mum ~ Or Both,
That Have Issues That Need To Be Addressed.
"Just Saw Your Update, And I After Reading It,
Don't Know What Other Advice To Give,
I'm sorry."
My Thoughts Are With You. ~*~*~*~*~Peace.
2006-06-24 16:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that would be hard to deal with. I think you need to sit down with her and have a serious talk about what is going on. Explain to her that you would never want to hurt her, and let her know that you think that she has a fear of hitting you because she thinks that you would hit her back. Let her know how you feel about the hole thing. Communication is the only way to go here. Hope this helped!
After reading you added details I think that you need to also tell her that you think she needs to get some help. I know it will be hard getting your mother to listen to you, but it sounds like she has been abused and is afraid that it might happen again. Maybe you're alot like your dad and that scares her. Let her know everything you're letting us know.
2006-06-24 16:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by loveismagic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you dressing in a scary manner? Have you pierced or tattooed yourself up so that you look intimidating? Are you high on drugs and acting irrational? Even if you were (except the drug part), I don't see why she'd be afraid of you. Maybe she has some mental problems that she needs help with. Get a third party involved - can you ask your father to speak up for you? Or another trusted adult? If you are still a student go to the student resource center and ask to speak to a counselor.
2006-06-24 16:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever threatened to hit her? You must have done something to make her scared of you. Or maybe she has been abused or hit in the past by a man, her dad or a b/f, husband. If you are physically bigger than her that may be why she is scared.
2006-06-24 16:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by kriss_sixty9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that it's possible that your mother is suffering from some sort of paranoia? Have you ever given her any indication that you could hurt her physically? I mean do you have like a bad temper or been in a lot of fights? That's the only things that I can think of that would make her feel the way she does.
2006-06-24 16:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she had a dream of you hitting her or maybe she thinks when you grow up that you might come and hurt her..... and if you love her you would never do that and it sounds to me that you dolove her and just talk to her and ask her if she is afraid of anything tell her you love her and that you would never want to hurt her in any way tell her that the thing your most afraid of is dying and not living with her love. Tell her how you feel, because im sure she will enjoy that!!
2006-06-24 16:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by chuchanna29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wheres your dad? Has he ever been abusive?
It seems kind of odd, but maybe something has happened in her childhood that has her traumatized and its being brought to the surface, unofrtunately, when you're around.
Maybe she should consider getting professional help to figure out what may be causing this fear. Until then, just reassure her how much you love her, buy her flowers to show you care for her. I know that sounds cheesy, but if you show her how much you care, things may eventually brighten up for her.:)
2006-06-24 16:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Krista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your own mom is afraid of you, that is saying something.She has to have a reason to fear her own son, whom she gave birth to and has raise all his life.Maybe you have an anger problem that she is afraid will turn into violence.Sit down and talk to her.Keep the lines of communication open.If she thinks you need professional help, do it.You need to make your mom feel safe when shes with you.
2006-06-24 16:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you seat down with her and ask the same way you are doing to her?, anyway you should be a good person when you are worried about her. And maybe she's afraid because of the people you get involved with.
2006-06-24 16:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by i want to talk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is messed up due to her dark past. Is she religious? If so watch out! I knew of a minister who thought his son was a demon and tied him in his basement until he died. His wife was a part of this evil plot. My advice is run or save up money so you can move out.
2006-06-24 16:32:58 · answer #11 · answered by Erik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋