I would like know the details on your situation and how you felt about it all.
I cheated on a guy, but I wasn't in love and I never really felt bad about it. I only felt bad when the secret was out. I didnt feel bad because of what I did, I felt bad because now he knew. And I am sure that people will think I am a horrible person, and I am willing to live with that.
Not that any of this makes it "right". I cheated because I was not that into him, he refused to our relationship up, and I was attracted to different things sexually that I had to go out and get elsewhere.
2006-06-24 16:24:39 · 14 answers · asked by lalala 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Personally i don't see a problem with him but it would have been better if you would have just broke it off and told him how you felt but whats done is done and if you don't regret it then i wouldn't worry about it!!! Live your life to the fullest because you only have one life to live!!
2006-06-24 16:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.Dennis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hunni I will answer your q honestly. yes I did, I was with the same guy for 17 years, he cheated on me a few times ( i had suspicions but never hardcore proof until we broke up and admitted it) I fell in love with someone close to me and we kept the affair a secret ( he comitted sucide). This secret is only known by my current partner. I will never admit it to my ex...It was a mistake that I do in turn regret, and that i would never do again under any circumstances. I was only in my 20's and I was not getting the attention that I needed from my ex, so I went elsewhere. If that makes me a horrible person than so be it. At least I am being honest about it to a degree.
2006-06-24 23:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated once and only once.
That's an odd story, though.
I was actually "Experimenting". I was with a girl, but cheated on her-lost my virginity to a guy.
The whole reason I tried the lesbian thing was because I somehow had kept getting in relationships with abusive guys.
So I went with her because I thought I was having bad luck with guys because it was a sign that I wasn't meant for them.
It endend up not being that I was gay because women don't turn me on at all-hence tha fact I lost my virginity to a guy...
he's the one I'm still kinda in love with today.
2006-06-24 23:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by Smae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't have cheated...if u were unhappy u should have just left him. why prolong it if u weren't happy? there was obviously something u liked about him. karma is a ***** so u better hope that the next guy u get with and really like this time doesn't do u how u did him.
2006-06-24 23:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Pimpin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not being worried about anyone knowing what you did doesn't bother you, but it bothers the one that you cheated on! You hurt that person, THAT should bother you! Whether you cared for that person or not, they cared for you!!! All you are worried about is that people KNOW that you cheat!!! Why do you care if he knows, you are still a cheater! You still don't care how you treat people! Move on, you don't give a crap anyway!!!
2006-06-24 23:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-06-24 23:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by jar12312 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my boyfriend have been together since 1st grade and i moved away in 5th but we were still together until i met
these group of of boys who were just my friends and my boyfriend had this radio station so one day my friends
would not tell me where we were going and ended up there
and my boyfriend asked who they were and one said he was my boyfriend and he hurt me bad enough where he went to jail
and i was in the hospital for 2 weeks but i didnt cheat I felt so bad and i miss him but im afraid to talk to him
2006-06-24 23:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by diggychick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never cheated, and never will. I'd feel too bad about it.
2006-06-25 01:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by ButterflyAngel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is never right, no matter the circumstances! It labels you for the rest of your single/dating "career," unless you lie about it. My advice- LIE about it.
2006-06-24 23:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by jesse b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda... Actually for me, cheating on somebody implies "breaking up"!
2006-06-24 23:28:39 · answer #10 · answered by fabee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋