I am in the army and move away in september. i met a girl a month ago and we hit it off really well. There is talk of getting serious in the relationship, it is obvious we both feel a strong connection to one another, but I am scared. She seems to be pretty much everything i have wanted in a woman and she seems to be really taken with me but I am not 100% sure what to do. I want to ask her to come with me but i am worried i am moving too fast. We live about 8 hours away from each other now but talk on the phone EVERY day for at least 45 mins to one hour, and that hour is full of conversation, not sitting there waiting for someone to say something. She is the kind of girl that my parents would love, the kind of girl that would fit right in with my family. We spent a weekend together and it was more of the same, talking for hours on end about everything. She seems to be IT!! Should i ask her to come with me or should i leave it to fate- leave her and see what happens when i come home??
2006-06-24 16:21:31 · 9 answers · asked by jesse b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
TAKE HER! There is nothing more romantic! And if you say she is everything you love in a woman, why are you even questioning it? Don't give up on something because you're too scared to ask. You'll never get anywhere liike that. What's the worst that could happen?
2006-06-24 16:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by Autumn_Anne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let this end. As it is you are having a long distance relationship. I think you should continue to spend the same amount of time talking to her on phone, even when you move away. And if there is something between you then you can ask her the next time you come back. Let it grow more b4 you really ask her. .. may be you could ask her about how its gonna be when you go away...i hope you will get time to visit her in between or may be call her over for sometime.
It takes a lot of courage to love someone whose far....But remeber ....True Love Stands The Test Of Time !!
2006-06-24 23:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by shina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be the biggest idiot if you let her get away. You are only scared cause no one has treated you like, you wanted before, and you think she may take it away one day. Be strong and go after what you want. I did and on my way to be married after 4yrs of being basically separated we're in the navy and fate is a bi@*h he got deployed to Iraq and we were in two different places already at the time so I went a year and some months without seeing him plus you want to avoid that whole on and off stage. Hope this is helpful to you.
2006-06-24 23:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by kei kei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really talk to her about it! Ask her what she thinks and if she wants to go with you! If everything is going ood then yes you guys should move together if nothing is holding her back and you two are really serious! I am sure that if she does move or if you go by yourself then everything will work out if its meant to be!!! LOVE WILL FIND A WAY!!!
2006-06-24 23:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.Dennis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you know in your heart of hearts what you really want out of this relationship...if you really love her and if you think that it could work then i would say go for it!! you never know until you try right?!? you could always just ask her to move with you and tell her that you dont want to jump into the marriage thing too quickly, tell her you want to take your time with her and that she is worth waiting for! and im sure that her response will be positive!!and dont worry...if she really cares about you im sure that she will go for it! good luck and best wishes!:)
2006-06-24 23:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by singslikeanangel2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are even considering asking her to move with you, I assume that you already have strong feelings for her. I suggest that you mention it to her and see what she says about it. I think that you should just go for it, you only live once.
2006-06-24 23:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you hold very strong feelings for her you just might want ot pursue it as soon as possible. You never know until you try it. I wish you the best of luck with your decision and be safe while your in the army.
2006-06-24 23:26:02 · answer #7 · answered by lesliem0105 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey why not ask her to visit you first the when you are together tell her how you feel and feel things out and see if she feels the same way but try not to push to much you may scare her a little
2006-06-24 23:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by mary m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its real love ull be just fine
2006-06-24 23:23:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋