My brother is 13 years old and has more privilages than I do. He can stay out to 12:00 A.M.! I'm 15 and I'm not allowed to do anything. I don't have a boyfriend because of my dad. I think my dad is very sexist in a way that he doesn't let me hang out with guys and yet my brother can do whatever he wants with a girl except have sex. Someone explain to me why people are such *** holes sometimes. I'm also thinking about running away because of all of this crap so answer me quickly.
2006-06-24 15:01:13 · 9 answers · asked by Panda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hei girl, you have got things very wrong....you just don't get the picture......for example.........m sure u hv a very precious thing that u will never want anyone else to touch it n u will give your life for it.......(m sure u hv many pens with you...but out of them there will be 1 special pen that u'll like to show off but not let anyone else to touch it ,,,,,,only you on special occassion)You are that precious thing for your father, that's y he is so protective towards you....he just want to make sure that you are close to him cos someday once your married, you'll follow your husband.......I hope u understand this running away thing doesn't solve any of your problem but / will could make you regret all your life....He loves you so much, Is it fair for him to be treated like that?........Once you grown up you'll thank your father for what he has done for you.........
2006-06-24 15:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know what thats like. My brother is two yrs younger yet he gets all the privilages and things that I should be able to have! and DO NOT RUN AWAY WHATEVER HAPPENS!!!!!!!!!
Most likely your parents are a little overprotective because you are female. I think all dads are like that in some way, Dads are just worried about their little girls. He probably doesnt mean to make you feel under privilaged just he's more worried that you might get involved with some loser or get pregnant...which most likely wont happen if you just deal with is going on. It also means that you are loved alot, and thats their way of showing how much they care about you. You may want to confront your parents about this. Some parents are oblivious to how much they favor one child over the other. Whatever you chose DO NOT run away. That is never the best answer. You could have a really good future ahead of you if you just last 3 more years of the overprotectiveness. Just think 3 more years and then you can do whatever you want. You can also just get some REALLY loud screamo rock music and scream in a pillow whenever you get angry!!!
2006-06-24 22:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by Bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever else happens don't run away, DON'T RUN AWAY - OK!!
If things are really bad talk to your counsellor at school, tak to your friends, talk to your Mother and Father but consider the alternative to a comfortable life with some restrictions - living on the street maybe doing drugs or selling yourself for a few bucks to see you through the next day - don't even consider it.
Who cares if your brother has more priveliges than you, it'll change soon, believe me. In a couple of years, this won't matter and things wil be very different, finish school, do what your parents want until you're old enough and financially stable enough to support yourself, then if it's still bad, you're not running away, you're moving out.
Good luck
Jerry_grey2002@yahoo.com.au
Living in Zhong Shan, Guang Dong, China.
2006-06-24 22:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by jerry_grey2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is more dangerous for girls to be out late.
Boys, can take care of themselves - a group of boys can fight, if necessary, when someone bothers them.
A girl would not, as easily, be able to fight off a man, trying to pull her into a car. Your parents are doing the right thing. Listen to them!
There are many bad things happening to kids these days. Your parents have your safety in mind. You should be glad they care enough about you to set rules.
Some kids do not have loving and caring parents, that give them rules and restrictions.
You're lucky to have parents that care about you and your brother to set curfews.
Your parents know what is best for you and your brother.
Don't run away. Many runaways are kidnapped and awful things happen. They end up in a foreign country, where they will never be able to see or talk to their family.
Your father and mother are only trying to keep you safe and alive. Which is very diffult to do these days. Please don't be angry at them - they are trying to protect you.
2006-06-24 22:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not worth running away over.. you're dad loves you, and thinks of you as his little girl, and he lets your brother do more than you cause he's a boy and in your dads eyes boys can look after themselves better than girls.. your dad was a young guy once and he knows what the boys your age want to do to you, he's just trying to protect you sweetie..lol it's all good, talk to your dad , expalin to him that if he tries to stop you from growing up , you will want to sneak out so that you can do all this fun stuff everyone else is doing, and that will just make it worse, ask him to give you a chance and to trust you, if you can show him how mature and honest you can be , he will see that you are growing up and he may just loosen the reins on you more.. good luck
2006-06-24 22:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are way more over protective about females because guys dont have to worry about having babies...... your dad loves you and he is just looking out for u. trust me dont run away when you turn 16 you will prolly get more freedom then you can get a boyfriend! Your dad wants the best for you so trust in him... and your brother will prolly end up being grounded all the time b/c he does have the freedom to go out and he could get himself in trouble. U dont want to end up like that. i think that u might only want more freedon for all the wromg reasons and who know's your dad's prolly saving you a lot of heart break cus ppl are hateful...... so u should wait till u get a lil older! but hey dont take my word for it!
2006-06-24 22:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by lil_bit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont run away but parents dont give girls many privilages not because they dont trust u but they dont trust the boys out there.Talk to them.
2006-06-24 22:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by Megan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a girl and can get pregnant thats why they are so strict i know how it was and now i have 2 girls of my own and i'll be the same your a girl and he is a boy they are protecting you.
2006-06-24 22:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by C B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just that fathers are more protective (jealous) about their daughters.
I don't know how to change it.
2006-06-24 22:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋