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IS HE INTERESTED IN ME?
by Sarah Paul
I was with my friend Alison at a pub after work when she nudged my
shoulder. "Hey, look at that cute guy!" she whispered. "He's
glanced my way several times now. Do you think he's interested in
me?"
I turned a little to look. He'd turned back to the bar, had his
back squarely to us, and had his arms crossed across his chest.
"Sorry to disappoint you, Alison," I said. "Looks like that one
isn't open for negotiation."
Most of us aren't even aware of all the body signals we send out
every single day. While women have a much more developed
"vocabulary" of body language, men tend to use the same nonverbal
signals to show that they are interested.
1. Checking You Out
When a guy first sees you, he will scan you from top to bottom. He
will do this most likely while you are not looking, and he may not
even realize that he is doing it himself.
You can often catch a guy checking you out, because if he is
interested in you and feels comfortable doing so, he may do it a
second time. You are meant to notice this time, and his gaze may
almost seem to stroke your body, lingering over the places he likes
best.
2. Grooming Behaviors
If he sees a girl he likes, he is going to want to make sure that
he looks his best. He may run a hand through his hair, check to
see that his shirt is tucked in (or not), straighten his tie or
jacket, or glance down at his clothes to make sure that nothing is
amiss. If he disappears into the restroom (to check his teeth? to
comb his hair?), he may return feeling sufficiently groomed to
start making a move on you.
3. Getting Your Attention
If he's attracted to you, he will try to attract your attention.
The way that he will go about it will be unique to him. Some guys
may simply move so that they are in your line of sight. Other guys
may engage is some extraordinary behavior so that your attention is
directed towards them. Whatever the case, if he is interested, he
will want to make you notice him, so that he can gauge whether or
not you find him attractive in return. For example, if he is with
a group of friends, he will stand slightly apart from them, as it
will make him stand out visually and be more likely to attract your
attention.
4. The Face
An instant and obvious indicator of his willingness to know you
comes when you first make eye contact with him. When you first meet
him, watch his face. Is it friendly, open, and inviting? Does his
face break into a spontaneous smile? Watch for the very subtle
signals of attraction: raised eyebrows, parted lips, or flared
nostrils.
He may touch his face a lot while talking to you as well, and this
is a sign of attraction. When we are interested in someone, our
skin becomes more sensitive and more pleasurable to touch. He may
rub his jaw, lay his chin on his hand, or stroke his forehead.
Similarly, if he has a drink in his hand, he will take more sips,
or if he has a cigarette in hand, will take more drags. The
tactile senses have been aroused, and he will likely be completely
unaware that he's doing it.
5. Body Position
Just like women, men like to show their body off to its best state.
A guy may flex or tense his muscles to draw your attention to
them. He may stand up more straight than normal or lean forward so
that he is closer to you. He may put his hands on his hips, as
doing so accentuates the size of his body and creates a V-shape.
If his is sitting, he may perch on the edge of his seat and lean
towards you. If his legs are crossed, he will point his resting
foot towards you.
Now you know some of those dead giveaway signs that tell you if
he's interested or not, it's time for you to make the connection
and work your magic. In my book, "How to be Irresistible to Men,"
you will discover how men think about women and how to get the man
that you want.
Download it now at:
http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/
See you again next time
Yours in dating success,
Sarah Paul
2006-06-24 15:03:05
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answered by Shalom Yerushalayim 5
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true player always keeps his options open, he's just keeping the fire with you warm in case it gets cold back at home.... if you liked him once, enjoy
2006-06-24 15:01:29
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answered by zach1235 1
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