2006-06-24 14:45:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I once went to a show in California. There were these senior citizens, I mean they were women in their 60's plus, I kid you not and they were pushing 20 dollar bills into the shorts of the dances and kissing them. I swear to you, I saw tongues flanging and everything. It made me ill. If that were my bf I'd feel the same as you. DISGUSTED. No, you are not wrong. He needs a new job or to change his work ethics. Good luck hun. P.S. ewwwww
2006-06-24 15:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not wrong for you to feel that way. The problem is he was a dancer when you met him and you knew it. The kissing is part of his job...how he makes the tips. If this is something that really bothers you, then it is probably best to move on to someone else. You aren't going to change him and most likely your anger and jealousy is not going to go away either.
2006-06-24 22:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by toby61565 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have EVERY right to be angry at him. if he's a dancer, i don't see where the kissing should come into play. i feel that he's not taking your relationship seriously which is a problem. tell him that it bugs you that he's kissing other women, women that aren't YOU. if he doesn't stop kissing other women after you've talked, leave him. you shouldn't have someone like that in your life that makes you miserable. i know it's gonna be hard to leave him if you love him, but it will pass and you'll find someone else. someone who WILL take your relationship seriously. hope it all works out!
2006-06-24 22:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by Alexis Samira 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your a decent person than you shouldnt be with him in the first place, obviously he is not ready to settle down and be a family or he would stop doing those sort of things, and especially if hes kissing other girls. thats nasty then you kiss him and your kissing every girl he kissed ewwww, think about that
2006-06-24 21:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by jayrok027 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not wrong in being angry, but keep it to yourself. he is a dancer.... this is his job' the kissing part well.....i think he only does that for $$$$ don't worry so much.
2006-06-24 22:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by jenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was a dancer when you met him, then you have no reason to whine about it now. You can't just change the rules on him now because you are jealous/insecure. If you can't handle it, move on.
2006-06-24 21:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by Waferette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAS HE DANCING WHEN YOU STARTED GOING WITH HIM? THEN YOU KNEW HE WAS A STRIPPER. BY KISSING THE LADIES WHILE DANCING HE IS JUST PLAYING ON THE LADIES PASSION TO GET BIGGER TIPS FROM THEM. MORE MONEY FOR YOU AND HIM TO GO OUT ON. IGNORE THE LITTLE KISSES THEY DO NOT MEAN ANYTHING AT ALL. JUST DOING THE JOB MAKING THE BEST MONEY HE CAN.
2006-06-24 21:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by BOOMBOOMBILLY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be mad. he's a "dancer" not a playmate porn star! the dancers are not required to kiss anyone...they are there to dance. you go tell your man off and take back whats yours!
2006-06-24 22:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by kittybrains 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the kissing is taking his job alittle far but thats just me
2006-06-24 21:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by greeneyedmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and he's a dog. Dump him before he brings you home an STD
2006-06-24 21:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by angelpockets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋