helpp this guy realy likes me what do i do?

Question

helppp what do i do i dont like him and he realy likes me hes always geting me drinks and he always wants to meet me like we're boyfriend and girlfriend but we're not he always asks me out and i keep saying know so what do i do now i dont like him like that so why cant he just leave me alone plz help what sould i do???

Answer 1

it might seem hard for you to say it, but you should just tell him that you dont like him like that.

tell him you think you guys would be better off as friends. if thats how you really feel about him.

if you totally want him off your back, want to break his heart and dont ever want to see his face again, tell him to leave you alone. but he seems like a nice guy, so i'd just tell him that you only like him as a friend.

Answer 2

Ok, if he's not taking a simple NO for an answer, quit hanging out with him. ALWAYS come up with excuses. He'll get the picture eventually. Or maybe u could get a ring from someone and say ur pormised to some guy or something.

Answer 3

Okay, try this. GO FOR HIM WAY, WAY, WAY overboard. Like, talk about marriage, children, meeting your grandma in Kansas. Call him incesantly, write TONS of love notes. Tell all of your friends he's going to propose to you and you can't wait. He'll think that YOU'RE the psycho and probably drop you like a hot rock.

Get the idea?

Answer 4

You can say: Thank you very much, but, I have a lot of things to do with my family. So, it is very hard for me to do something with someone else. My family is very close.

You know how it is, family comes first. They always have things for me to do with them. It's kind of fun. I enjoy being with my family, more than my friends. My family and I have a great time together.

Hey, if I ever have some spare time, I'll let you know, okay. Alright, see ya. Have a great summer.

Answer 5

Just tell him that you don't like him the way he likes you...and you don't want to spend most of your time with him since you're not bf/gf.
Tell him that you want to make things clear between the two of you. You don't want to hurt his feelings in the end because he might expect too much from you because you're going out with him as a friend and that he sees it differently.

Answer 6

I think you should see him on the inside not on the outside. If he's nice with you there's not reason to be mean with him and tell him to stop bothering you...it will be mean to do that. Instead ask him how he really feels about you and maybe his feelings may not be what you think. He might just wanna be friends. Look deeply into it.

Answer 7

PPLLLEEEAAASSSEEE Tell this person before it is to late. I have been in a situaton where I was unhappy in a relionship. It is not worth it to give them time to attach themselves to you. Just let the person down very lightly. Remember they have feelings also.

Answer 8

stop him liking you..coz i think u do not deserves...but 1sy of all ask him what he really wants..may be you are thinking in wrong way he is not...be as friends and ask him whats the matter...dont be late in asking maybe later he will get hurt more then now...

Answer 9

I was mean to boys like that and they would always call me a b*tch because of it but I didn't care. I hated it when they would be around me. I'd rather be a b*tch!

Answer 10

i had the same problem. you should tell him how you feel, if he really liked you he would back off if you told him too. but, tell him in a nice way, you don't want to break his heart.