my friend thinks that any man who can perform anal sex on a female has gay tendancies.
Id like your opinions on this as i disagree with my friend.
2006-06-24 13:54:26 · 29 answers · asked by bmw.girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
actually................she went as far as to say that the men who do this....closet homosexuals!!!!!
2006-06-24 13:55:45 · update #1
Men are from Mars
Women are from Venus
Anything in between are from Uranus
2006-07-01 11:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by El Mariachi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I disagree, most men that I have known have been curious about anal sex, probably because its a "taboo" subject. Sex is all about experimenting with each other and some women like anal sex, some even prefer it therefore they need a bloke who is willing to perform while still fancying them as a woman!
I don't think it's right to say they must be closet gays and think your friend appears to have an issue with anal sex, her choice, and therefore would be ideally suited to a man who is not so adventurous in bed!
2006-07-08 07:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anniez say 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where your friend is coming from (oops, sorry, not the best way to phrase it!!)
I used to think this, but I don't think you can ever generalise. Everyone is different and we're all made up of so many, often fascinating, likes and dislikes, sexual and otherwise.
I do think that it is possible for a guy to be straight and enjoy anal intercourse. The main incentive is the tightness of the jar.
My own theory is that it is often men with small dicks, rather than bi or gay.....it makes sense if you think about it......
But there is so much more to this argument....some women enjoy anal sex, and if only gay men perform it, there would be some unfulfilled women!
Best advice for your friend - find a man who suits you and who wants to make you happy sexually - don't waste time speculating about the ones that don't do it for you.
2006-07-03 08:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have indulged with 1 or 2 girlfriends, anal pleasures, who have insisted that if I do them, they get to do me! And it has been great fun and highly pleasurable - much as I suspected it would be (otherwise why would they agree to it).
Does that make me gay? I rather think not, as I neither fancy other men nor find myself falling in love with any of my male aquaintances that have the appealing sort of personalities that I find attractive
Too many men are so scared of acknowledging the pleasures from more diverse sexual practices as well as being more honest about the emotional attachments they make with other men - for fear of being branded as gay.
2006-06-24 21:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by blank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont personally think so, thats like saying any girl who has kissed another girl is a closest lesbian?
Dosent make sense eh? I think when someone performs anal sex its just another way of experimenting, plus in some places its pretty taboo so its kind of going on step further, plus bragging to their mates that they have "done a bird up the ****" is always a hit with lads!
Classy? No! Cheeky? Defo!
2006-06-24 21:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Hannah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm straight, and I see no problems with it...
You might as well argue that oral from a women could be closet homosexual too... And when a man gives a woman oral, then she is a closet lesbian!!! ;)
And what are women who enjoy anal???
When it comes down to it... Sexual orientation has nothing to do with anything, just a want/need to inflict pleasure and recieve it...
Your friend is a total idiot... Or a "out-and-out" moron... ;)
2006-06-25 04:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men who peform anal are gay.
I too like anal on woman 'cause womans anal also has vaginal type nerve endings that give pleasure to woman.The womans anus stretches & flexible,so the enjoyment for man too.
But man to man stuff, no, its not nice.Men do imagine things like that, but never get to actually doing it.
Right guys? with so many women around, each with 3 openings to do it, why bother amongst ourselves?
2006-07-07 05:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by bharat b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's definitely not true. My husband is in NO WAY even close to being gay and he likes anal...now if he could only find a woman that was willing to use that orifice for entry instead of exit...cause it sure as heck ain't going to be me..lol!!
2006-06-24 21:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by funny_girl_63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a huge difference between anal sex with a guy and anal sex with a women...my hubby likes anal sex with a women but that doesn't make him gay or even have gay tendencies
2006-06-24 21:12:21 · answer #9 · answered by bllnickie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bumhole is primarily used withing gay love affairs. however it is the only genital entry point for gay men to use. so how is it fair to call it a gay thing when they really have no choice.
Bums are also tighter give a hightenest sense of pleasure, why not!
lol
2006-07-05 19:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your friend is wrong, some men like both options, you would have to fancy men to have gay tendencies.And like the look of mens bottoms...
2006-07-07 16:53:19 · answer #11 · answered by thalia_marks'swife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋