Has your sex life changed?

Question

People in long term (i.e over 4 years) relationships whether married/dating or engaged. Has your sex life changed? For the better or worse, what would you say has made this change? Kids? Money and work commitments?

I didnt say 4 years was LONG TERM, I said 4 years +. Just didnt want answers from people still in the "honeymoon stage", I said 4 years cause thats when things changed in my relationship. Oh and I know how to talk with my partner, it just seems its more talking than sex! Hence the question, no need to be stroppy!

Answer 1

Mine has changed a lot over the years... Some for the good, some for the bad, and some just for the hell of it...

And I'd like to thank all the women involved in those changes... ;)

Answer 2

Yes it has change and for the better by far. I think the biggest change factor is that we have no insecurities left we have both seen each other in the most unflattering ways that why be embarrassed or shy about sex. I have seen him go through kidney stones and he ha seen me have 3 kids so lets just say were not shy to add to it there is bu-coos of trust with in the relationship. I am not hesitant to tell him exactly what i want or need nor is he.

Answer 3

Sex has change my Life indeed it has brought me Five children ! But I must say it changed for the better because I can Honestly say that through it all God has supplied all of our needs! My children are 19,18,16,15,and 13 And God has blessed me to never see anyone of them hurt in jail with criminal records none of the things that some of my friends are going through!So yes sex has given me a good life as a Mom!And as a wife it hasn't always been easy but Ive been with my Husband for 20 years and married 13 years!

Answer 4

Of course it changed. It changed after we lived together about six months. We used to have it everyday. Now it is about 3-4x per week. There is a better sense of comfort about it. Now we can be more playful and laugh and joke while in the moment. It brings a different level for me. I enjoy the current status but I still crave (at times) the intensity of the beginning.

Answer 5

It did while I was married, I got the least amount of sex I ever had since I was 13 (now 37) while married for 5 years, money and kids are the two biggest factors. Also, my ex-wife used to complain that my penis was too large for her, it figures that the only woman I've heard that complaint from would be the one I married. such is life

Answer 6

Personally, it's about the same, maybe a little better. If you're able to keep a sense of balance and "life" into perspective (kids, money, work and other commitments), it all just falls into place. If you don't put some work into it, it'll fall apart... that involves sex too!

Answer 7

Yes it has. Sometimes for the better and at time worse. You can lose the luster of it but you also learn what turns each other on better so when you do get it on it's alot better. Kids have a huge impact on it as well. You start to lose time that you would usually have.

Answer 8

Well, if you consider that I was having sex everyday when I was married, to not having any at all since my coma and divorce 15 years ago, a change in my sex life, then yes.

Answer 9

Change happens, everyday. The question is whether you and your loved one can adjust and cope with the changes in your life. Sex is probably the last thing couples make adjustments for. Find time, or make time for it. And the more sex couples have, the longer and happier they would be.

Answer 10

well, we used to have sex 7 days a week, and now its more like 4 times a week, and i think its because we actually talk, and enjoy the other aspects of our marriage.at first its all about screwing like wild animals, and then, you realize you can get it when you want, so its not so important.ive heard people say the best way to ruin your sex life is to get married. its not the case in mine.