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Well you probably need to leave her alone unless she starts talking to you, She's married remember.

2006-06-30 01:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by CottonPatch 7 · 2 0

Sometime love or attraction or finding your soul mate comes at the right time and sometimes at the wrong time in life.
Sometime being friends or sex buddies works. (We won’t get into the ethical/moral debate)
But 99.999% of times even if it is the real thing; the feelings/attractions are real even mutual and either of you are already in a comment relationship (soul mates or not) when someone she or you or him/she/partner/spouse has to make some type of a choice...about continuing or ending a relationship… sex…divorce…just friends…It will not work out! The pressure will be too great.
In my opinion you should talk with someone professional so that you can learn to control and deal with what might be genuine feelings for this women maybe even mutual feeling. So you will not just be the other guy who broke up someone or a stocker because of your intense love or passion for this person.
You deserve to be attracted to someone however you want to be smart about it. If he or she are meant for you, by you talking it over with a professional such as a counselor be it a priest, psychologist or a mature(twice your age) friend. When and if the women’s relationship is in trouble and fails then you’ll be in a better place to be in a relationship with that person. If it is never meant to be then you’ll be able to deal with the let down and be able to save feelings and face.
Ask yourself these questions:
•If she is flirting or trying to pick you up while she is married do you want or are ready for all of her current ending relationships baggage.is that a good foundation you want to start on?
•If you are in a relationship with her in six months or so and she becomes tried of you and starts glancing at some other person are you ready for that?
•How would that feel for you?
I professionally think it's passion or your hormones it's been only 1 week and your way too serious to fast if you don't glance/see her or anything for six months you should repose the question to this form again...in the mean time talk to someone professional. Try to fill your time glancing at a book, magazine, video or at a single women or at some beautiful scenery.... hey try a new hobby!
You’ll find true love when you not looking for it

2006-07-08 05:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by jaggedart 3 · 0 0

You should go up to her and say 'hello' and smile.

It is not clear if you knew her before she got married and as such she may be in a loveless marriage, or she could be extremely happily married, you will never know unless you speak to her. To those who told you to back off and leave her alone - just because you like her it doesn't mean she will like you, if she is happy with her life then you may turn out, at best, to be friends; if she is unhappy with life, then who knows?

You can speak with her anywhere, supermarket, street, work, anywhere where you could do so casually. The more public the place the more relaxed she will feel, especially if it is somewhere she goes often. Just don't go too heavy too fast.

In short, nothing venured nothing gained, plus, I think someone once sung, it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all!

2006-07-07 03:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by marc k 2 · 0 0

Ok. It is for people like you that families are broken and distraught. Do you know what a woman becomes when she gets children. It is called "mother", a title that has been associated for centuries with purity and a sum of love that is thought to be even greater than this universe, because when a woman becomes a mother she changes from an ordinary woman to someone who can without consideration give away own's life for her children. But I will have no ill feeling against you if the married woman actually agrees to like you because that would mean that she did not really love the man she had married and cared no more even for her children ( who will certainly be left with a despairing and heartbreaking world after the departure of the mother whom they thought to love them like the all gracious human being (mother) they heard from stories). That woman would not be a human, but an animal who because of her animal passions would give away the humanism and would destroy the pure hearts of the family who thought of her as the ever gracious mother of their dream. If she is not interested, then please don't try to take advantage of her animal instincts (sexual wantings) to destroy a family. Family is pure, some idea that you have probably never come to grasp.

2006-07-07 09:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by farabirrahman1 1 · 0 0

First what do you mean "glancing." She is a married woman so please stay away from her, if you was interested in you, she would not have gotten married to someone else. She is married to another man so just back off and leave here alone. If she wanted to talk with you she would have contacted you herself. There are a lot of single women out there so go out and find one.

2006-07-07 07:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If she has heard you speak and you talk the way you write, better give up now. You don't stand a chance! Quit glancing at a married woman before you get killed or go to jail for stalking.

2006-07-07 15:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by georgiapeach 4 · 0 0

If your glancing is actually flirting, you'd best back off before hubby takes a punch at you. She's married, so if she wishes to talk to you, she'll make the first move, but don't go beyond the 'glancing' or you're nothing but a dog.

2006-07-07 04:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by save_up_your_tears 4 · 0 0

Your glancing need to stop. She is married. What could you possible want to talk to a married woman about. You must think she is fine and you woudn't mine boning her. Well if you look on a women to lust after her you already commited adultery with her in your heart. Let it stop there. Everyone has sinned but i tell you this to open your eyes. So have the right intentions and keep away if you don't because sin is deceitful. don't deceive yourself. peace brother.

2006-07-03 09:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by Brown Sugar 3 · 0 0

Here are some pickup lines that are guaranteed to either help or hurt your chances at getting the person of your dreams to go home with you! Practice them at home and try new ones often. You never know, it might increase the odds of one of them working... eventually!
Look at all those curves, and me with no brakes!!!
My magical watch says you aren't wearing any panties. Oh, you are? It must be an hour fast!
Hey , I'm the cable guy, my only policy is that if I hook your cable up, you have to hook mine up!
I think you've got something in your eye. Oh nevermind, it's just a sparkle.
Baby... wanna come for a ride?
The only thing I want between our relationship is latex.
Save water, shower with a friend!
You must be Jamaican, Cause you Jamaican me crazy.
I think I'm in heaven because you look like an angel. Can you take off your shirt so that I can check for wings?
Your name must be Daisy, because I have the incredible urge to plant you right here!
Excuse me M'am, you dropped a piece of ***, let me get that for you. (then grab her ***)
Your legs are like peanut butter, smooth, creamy, and easy to spread.
Is your father a farmer? Because you sure do have some nice melons.
Quick, somebody call the cops, you just stole my heart.
I love every bone in your body, especially mine!

2006-07-07 09:10:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There is no harm in talking to a person that is married. Cause lots of people have married friends but there is ways you go about things.
Does her husband know about you talking to her ? And is he your friend too? Or cool with this whole idea?
You don't want to do anything to come between them. You don't want any riffs.

2006-07-07 01:51:02 · answer #10 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0 0

Unless you are friends with her husband you owe him EXACTLY NOTHING. If he is a friend of yours, then even thinking about it makes you human garbage. Assuming that this is not the case, do what you want (just be ready for the consequences) and let her deal with the fact that she is breaking her marital vows. If it was a solid relationship, you wouldn't have a chance.

Your grammar really is atrocious. I hope that you wrote the question with the monitor turned off in a huge hurry while extremely drunk.... cause, wow.

2006-07-07 02:13:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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