Ok heres the short version of everything. I started a new job about 5 months ago and I still dont talk to anyone there, including my boss, my coworkers, customers, I just feel like such a loner, I try but I just cant seem to get along with anyone they are all so different from me, its the same way in life, ever since i was 17 or so i just turned into a big loner, I actually dont even mind it that much but I have 0 friends, my girlfriend doesnt really have any either and life is just starting to get a little boring for me. Whats a loner to do? Should I keep trying and failing with people or just accept life as a loner?
2006-06-24 13:24:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
only you can make the changes that you desire in your life...everyone is special and so are you..Open up to others(your co-workers, etc.) and you will probably find some responding back to you with sincere compatibility and friendship...make one little step with one person and then another. good luck to you. Life is meant to be lived with others. Enjoy your life and enjoy the company of others. PEACE
2006-06-24 13:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, I feel your pain. I don't say much either. My advice to you would be to talk to more people. Get active in some new activities (while including ur g/f, btw, ur way better off than me cause I don't have one), find some new friends and enjoy life. People are naturally going to be different, and there are going to be many times when you have nothing in common with people, but that is only for the better. Befriending these people will expose you to new and different things, and will open yourself more towards others.
Also, you've got a girlfriend. If ur bored, ur probably not goin out with her often enough. Show her some love.
Live is for livin. Live!
2006-06-24 21:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by c90 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am just like you but i did start talking to people. take a stand and be the first person to say HI. i don't even have a job. my fiance has alot of friends but me...no. but i am happy the way i am. i get alot less drama from people and i feel i can be my own person and not have to impress anyone.
2006-06-24 22:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by kittybrains 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you try a chat room and try talking to people who knows you might meet some real nice people and click with them give it a try who knows you might meet a life long friend
2006-06-24 20:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by lkng4lv14892@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like somewhere there is a confidence problem just believ in your self and dont worrie about what other people think....it doesnt matter what you look like just strut your stuff with confidence thats the key.............get involved in something frizbee golf poker softball bars get more sociable expeirences..
remmember your a bad ***.............
2006-06-24 20:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only a failure if you give up. Keep trying but don't be deperate just be you.
2006-06-24 20:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by on my way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋