i don't consider her a friend if she is talking trash about one of your relatives. Dump the "friend" of yours and don't read her emails or reply back to them. Eventually she'll get that you don't like what she is saying about your family. I have done that, and i could care less if I lost her because I knew in my heart she was no true friend.
2006-06-24 13:08:46
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answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5
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I have no clue why she can't stop, but i can give you some ideas that may be a bit of help.
If she is a true friend then you should tell her that you don't appreciate what she is sending you. She should understand that it isn't very considerate.
If she is using bad language then she may here it alot around her own home. Sometimes it is hard to control your tongue if you hear something used alot.
If she is talking trash and using "bad words" to describe people in your family, then she may have a grudge against you or something terrible is going on in her life and she takes it out on other people.
You also have to remember that you may have said or typed something that hurt her feeling. It could be pay back
2006-06-24 20:17:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Sweetie
We often miss label thing and people in life today, and this will no doubt cause a confusion amongst us. You start by calling this person your friend. Don't give her/him a label they have not earned. If this person(for lack of another word) is sending you bad email and talking about your family.Then I would say she is very unhappy with herself.And you are the closes and easiest target so she is verbally abusing you. I would tell this person what she is doing is affecting me in an negative way. And directly tell her she needs to stop or what we have will go no further. If she continues. I would block her/his email and discontinue contact. Because any real friend will/would put your feelings first.
2006-06-24 20:13:46
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answered by Patricia A 2
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Ok F a friend keeps on do'n that 2 me I'd tell her up straight 2 stop F it continues than give her a warn'n! I mean I don't mean 2 sound mean or NE thing but come on this S family she's talk crap about, Family S 4 ever, I'd make her stop as much as possible, F she's a true friend then she'd understand. Jus' tell her 2 place her feet N U'r shoes, I mean she wouldn't like U talk'n bad about her family member right? I always go by the say'n "Do unto others as U would do unto U" I follow that as much as posible.
2006-06-24 20:13:41
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answered by Patient NightShade 4
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If you have asked her to stop, and she still does it, then dont open the emails, just delete them un-opened. Or block them. If she asks why you don't answer, tell her that you have her blocked, and won't unblock her until she respects you by sending good emails only.
Also tell her that you wont talk about other people, period. The don't. If she persists, keep repeating it, and then say, i have other things to do, whatever, and go do something else.
She isn't a real friend if she doesn;t respect your boundaries. You don't have to have anything to do with her. Find people who treat you better.
2006-06-24 20:10:25
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answered by Pichi 7
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Have you called her or e-mailed and let it be known this is not acceptable behaviour and you want it to stop NOW!
If you did, and she's still doing, it, as the others said, block her e-mails and stop all contact - she is no friend of yours.
2006-06-24 20:09:00
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answered by MillwoodsGal 6
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Maybe she wishes she had your life and your relatives, you know jealousy is a mother lover and some people on others especially when they wont what you have. So Spam her butt out and keep your head up.
2006-06-24 20:11:13
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answered by dangerously in love 3
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Simple: Block Her
2006-06-24 20:07:07
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answered by Anonymous
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Block her mail as spam or simply delete her mail when you see it. No one needs friends like that.
2006-06-24 20:09:52
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answered by S.A.M. Gunner 7212 6
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She just wants a reaction from you, she must be a sad case of depression.Ignore her and show her that you are happy and that her remarks are not bothering you.
Good luck.
2006-06-24 20:15:16
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answered by Firefly 4
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