2006-06-24 13:02:46 · 12 answers · asked by aynonomus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is completely up to you because if you think you are mature enoughto take responsibility to use poretection and be safe then go for it. Be careful the person you chose to give your virginity to because it is sacred and it can never be given away again. If you want to let your parents opinions be a factor in your decision then its up to you.
2006-06-24 13:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you are still young enough that your parents have a say in it, you definatley should NOT have sex, you are to young. im no old bat so Im not saying it for your mom.
Second, if you have faith of any kind in any God, then you should wait because you will always wonder if you should have been stronger or if you did something wrong.
Third, sex really is a big step...no matter how exciting it may sound, it is a very big step in your life. I think most women between 25 and 30 would tell you they wish that they had waited for someone else...so just hold on to the one thing you own out right...lol.
2006-06-24 20:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by jnrrobinson2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait if you can, ideally of course. It also depends how old you are. If you are at least 25 then you've waited this long, might as well keep waiting. If you are younger than it still might be a good idea to wait because you should mature a little more before you do something like that. Confusing answer huh?
2006-06-24 20:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't wait until I get married. My parents don't know that I'm not a virgin though. They would probably kill the guy. I was ready to accept the consequences. A lot of people say that you should wait, but I couldn't. How can you marry a guy without knowing how he is in the sack? Would you buy a car without test driving it first??
2006-06-24 20:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by Pirate_Wench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not have sex before marraige and I am speaking from experience. I am married to my husband now, but I did sleep with him before we got married- actually he was my first, but that still does not change the fact that we should have waited until marriage.
There are a lot of consequences that can result from having premarital sex--protected or unprotected, and then when it is all said and done, we still have to answer for it when we stand before GOD.
2006-06-25 21:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by ladysea8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want- but be safe about it. I dont think there is anything wrong with finding out what your working with before you make a lifetime commitment... If you are in a relationship built on honesty and trust, its up to you when to take the next step, not your parents. BUT USE PROTECTION!!!
2006-06-24 21:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex before marriage is always wrong-you will pay for it in the future, it always cost far more than it is worth.
2006-06-24 20:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
before
2006-06-24 20:06:13 · answer #8 · answered by fafandloo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait
2006-06-24 21:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did never regreted it but did love the person and had been with them for a while before we did anything
2006-06-24 20:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋