2006-06-24 13:01:08 · 16 answers · asked by frsttmshy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no trust is a big issue......... is hard to explain but even after cheating even if you see your husband is truly sorry and he even makes effort to prove his changed and you see no evidence of him ever doing anything else..... trust is just something you can never regain once is lost is gone... you will always wonder about something..... but hey there is so many of us in that boat,one can never feel lonely in something like this...... but the answer to this question is nope trust is the one thing that cant be recover in any case.good luck.
2006-06-24 17:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 13⤊ 3⤋
Hard to say because it depends on the situation.
If he did it only once maybe TRUST can fix. But if he did it more than once, it's likely hard to fix.
Everyone has their own experience. It happened to me. I trusted my husband but now hard to TRUST him but I still love him to forgive him & trying to fix the relationship even though there is no TRUST in it. I just accepted it. I guess this is somewhat hard to explain. I love him enough to accept that there is no TRUST. I easily forgave him but not totally forgotten.
Everyone deserves another chance & if it doesn't work out then move on. Life is good to be miserable.
2006-06-24 22:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible. However, my wife had an affair. When I found out she said the affair was over and was really sorry and we got counseling. After about a year I found out it was still going on. If trust is to be regained both parties have to be trust worthy. She wasn't. We split 10 years ago.
2006-06-24 20:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the history of the person that broke the trust. If it was a one time thing, then with time you may be able to trust again.
If it is habitual..then no..trust is gone forever!
2006-06-24 20:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by menndebi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when trust is broken u can never get it back I went through it with my ex husband and u can't get it back once it is gone. U will always wonder
2006-06-24 23:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by kelbel73183 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the foundation of all relationships...Once that's gone, nothing will ever be the same
2006-06-24 20:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by lexdan06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No. You can if you are willing to. But remember we can only take so much before we break ourselves. If it is something you think will continue to happen over and over then I would say you can not get it back, but if something happened that like lying or cheating I believe in the back of your mind you will always wonder if they are cheating and when he or she tells you something you will only believe half of it and that is bad to live like that. You need to figure out if it is something your willing to take another chance with this person.
2006-06-24 20:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes overtime you can get it back ! It takes the both of you to work at it ! You must learn forgiveness and have lots of patience! And Most important Of all Pray and ask God to renew the faith in you and your partner! I'm A living witness Prayer changes things!
2006-06-24 20:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how the trust was broken
2006-06-24 20:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by fafandloo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hardest thing to fix in a relationship, and you never do really trust them again
2006-06-24 20:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can
first you must find it in your heart to forgive
then communicate
then rebuild trust step by step slowly using little things to prove it on the way
2006-06-24 20:05:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋