a woman discoversher man is having an affair.........why does she go for the other woman?( not the cheating partnter too.....same question regarding men?)
2006-06-24 12:48:59 · 16 answers · asked by bmw.girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd kick both their asses.
2006-06-24 12:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you are asking why she blames this other woman.
I think it's just some kind of masochistic fascination. She wants to about this person her man was so attracted to that he would compromise his relationship.
By the way, it doesn't always have to do with his taste in women. Look at that Jude Law/Sienna Miller/Nanny thing.
2006-06-24 12:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by Untitled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instinct , theyre kidding themselves in2 thinking the man is innocent and also it dates back 2 the years of the dinosaurs and all that jazz :P cos we tske out the opposition as they are the percieved threat and rreason 4 the upset
2006-06-24 12:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by Smoby J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've thought about that myself. Maybe because the person he or she cheated with has no respect for others peoples' commitment or family? The person you should blame is the cheater, but going after the one they cheated with is just a way to try to teach them to respect other peoples' relationships.
2006-06-24 12:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman wouldn't a bitc* well, i wouldn't unless the woman knew beforehand that was my man. They would both be able to enjoy each other bcause i would remove myself the woman i am i am too good for azzholes like that.
2006-06-24 12:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by misstree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men and women alike are curious to what they think they are missing out on and all they are doing is setting themselves up for heart ache and pain not only them themselves but for the one they cheated on. I hope this bring you some comfort.
2006-06-24 12:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by dangerously in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's because she still loves her man even though he's broken her heart.
the other woman is easier to attack and by doing this she thinks she will back off, leaving her man to be just hers again.
most women who have been hurt in this way forgive the first time.
not all but some.
2006-07-01 01:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by tuppassister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because people are protective of their "property." If something is yours, you're more annoyed at the person who caused damage to it than fixing the thing.
Like if you had a kid and he got in a fight, REGARDLESS of who started the fight, you're going to b*tch out the other kid and/or his parents first, not your son.
2006-06-24 12:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know good question. But I guess its because their jealous. Their man left them for something else, therefore instead of looking at it as YOU were to good for him, she looks at it as HE found something better than YOU. So their jealous of being cast aside.
2006-06-24 12:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by greatgirl66784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my case when i called the other woman and found out he'd been telling her we weren't together she became my enemy when she kept pursuing him whilehim and i were trying to end things. she didn't give him and i a chance to die before she moved right in.
2006-06-26 20:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by carrie d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the competition is her enemy, and she see her as her chief adversary, like a spider grabbing a fly from another spider the fly is the innocent party.
2006-06-24 12:52:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋