having these female phonenumbers coming by to visit him and these female friends are there with him but when i come into the house i get this sense of something is not right here. A vibe that i am so not wanting to go through any more
2006-06-24 12:38:13 · 15 answers · asked by Ihateujbw 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Run don't walk
2006-06-24 12:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would not like that either, and I say always go with your gut. If you think there is something wrong, chances are it is. But on the otherhand, if he is having these "friends" in front of you & not lying about it than he probably isnt doing anything wrong. Do you trust him? Has he cheated on you before? You may just have some (natural) insecurities. Go with your gut! Good luck :)
2006-06-24 19:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by Herself The Elf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never doubt your gut feelings. If you feel like something's not right then you need to get up the courage and balls to ASK him flat out. Just be like "Look. I got a bad feeling. What's going on?" If he blames you for overreacting or blows you off for "being stupid" then 1) he's hiding something and/or 2) he doesn't respect your feelings. A man who has nothing to hide will be very blatant and straight forward when he explains something. A man who's hiding something will just turn it around on you. Talk to him and take it from there.
2006-06-24 19:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your gut. There's a reason why you get that feeling. Just be careful and take things slow until you know for sure. But if you are always going to feel that way then just end it. Otherwise it will always in the back of your mind and will be the foundation of a troubled relationship.
2006-06-24 19:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by poephan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sorry to say he is can't be trusted. I have a few female friends, and I know where to draw the line when it comes to hanging out or 'hanging out'. Good luck, and don't do anything you will regret.
2006-06-24 19:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by Justin S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl are you crazy get out while you can don't stick around cause the heart ache will only get worse.i hope there are no kids. but if there are still set out no one needs to put up with a dog..
2006-06-24 19:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by crchilders1982 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love yourself? Do you value your worth on this spinning ball? I don't know you or your man but I do know if you leave cake around a fat kid long enough it will be eatin....................... Think about the way you feel and if it isn't good you need to move on..
2006-06-24 19:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by D W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy who has seen this many times going the other way.
If my experience is any indication whatsoever,
GET OUT!
2006-06-24 19:42:18 · answer #8 · answered by sideshot72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just before you dump him start showing up with some male friends....give him a taste of his own medicine....
2006-06-24 19:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't worth him, dump him. You deserve respect and he is not giving you any.
2006-06-24 19:41:45 · answer #10 · answered by starting over 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You teach people how to treat you, whether you know it or not.
2006-06-24 19:41:06 · answer #11 · answered by Pancakes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋