My husband watches porn alot. It does not bother me at all & in fact we often watch it together. He goes to internet porn sites in the morning before he goes to work & sometimes at night as well. (Oh yeah & he pays monthly for the site.) My mother said something is wrong with him & that men who watch porn are "taught" to humilliate & "degrade" women. Some of my friends also say that they would be upset if their husband did this because it is a form of cheating. Is it? Does he have a problem?
2006-06-24 12:25:37 · 27 answers · asked by Herself The Elf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
porn is sick and twisted. Sex should be about love and mutual atrraction at the very least, not about $, cocaine or whatever sick reason those people subject themselves to that. it is absolutely in my book a form of cheating. ewww disgusting.
2006-06-24 12:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by juggernaut 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Porn is a very sad thing it is degrading to men, and to women. Many young people will get pressured into the porn industry, because they think it will be their big break...it never is. So you are watching someone being taken advantage of. Not only that, but it makes sex cheep, and meaningless. If you can't get all the sexual gratification you need from your spouse something is wrong. If my husband was going to other peoples homes, and watching them have sex...it would be wrong...what is the difference with porn.
2006-06-24 12:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by jenj23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget what they say if you are happy and he is happy then why fix a problem that isn't broke. As long as he is not hurting you mentally or physically then DON'T LISTEN TO FRIENDS as for you mom she grew up in a different time porn is not evil like ppl used to think(which some still do)he might have a problem but i would much rather deal with a man that is crazy for porn then crazy for drugs or anything like that. Do you masturbate if so are you cheating on your husband when you do? NO
So why would it be considered if he done the same.
2006-06-24 13:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know your husband, but some people do have a problem with it. My ex-wife and I used to watch a lot of it, and always together. Most of my current girlfriends also look at porn with me. (No, I did not cheat, she did.) I guess it just depends on the person, but if you are enjoying it together, I can't see how it could be a form of cheating.
2006-06-24 12:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by bab_ent1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and i watch porn every once in a while before sex but like i said only once in a blue moon. i want to make sure he is getting horny from me and not the girls on the tv.. I mean it is okay to watch it together once in a while but if he's paying for it monthly and watching and looking at it before work then yes he does have a problem. People really do become addicted to that so becareful and he may think it's okay because you watch it together.
2006-06-24 12:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by jean22005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, as long as you two are comfortable watching porn together its perfectly fine. If you look at porn and he looks at porn its like you are totally equal, don't worry about what other people say just kept it the same. All guys, and 1/3 of girls look at porn, your husband and you are fine, just have a talk about so he know that's you are both fine about looking at it, just don't let it degrade you sex life.
2006-06-24 12:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's lots of different types of porn. Some of it is pretty unpleasant but most of it is harmless. As far as the harmless stuff goes, it is good to stimulate your erotic side with porn sometimes and it can help you to build your relationship - especially if you watch/read it together. I don't think that all porn degrades women at all.
2006-06-24 12:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by Markie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will have there own opinons about subjects like that. My boyfriend watches porn..it does not bother me..we have watched it together, and he watches it when I am not home..when he's in the mood. My opinion its better to enjoy porn at home..then to find the real thing somewhere else. I don't believe watching porn is cheating. It not like he's talking to other girls.
2006-06-24 12:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you think you said you dont care but is there a bell going off in your head telling you other wise does it make u feel bad ur husband is lusting after other people and if he does it so often hes probably addicted im not dr. phil but something is wrong with that if it was just u to watching it every once in a while to spice things up it wud be diff but all the time no you need to decide what to to about it a suggestion is ask him to not do it for 2 weeks if he cracks its an addiction
2006-06-24 12:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by mzcokeacolababy07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's addicted to pornography. That is not normal behavior. I cannot believe that it does not bother you. If he is looking at other naked body's other than his own wife's then he does have a problem.
People that are into pornography end up getting into other things such as rape and child molestation.
Don't you watch the news or listen to the radio? Often times when they nail sex offenders, they find pornography in their homes.
when one fills their mind with something enough times, they start to act out their thoughts, thus making porn dangerous and bad news.
2006-06-24 12:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's some you guys enjoy together. No offense but tell your friends and family to get the stick out of their butts and grow up. So what you guys like watching porn. At least it's not drugs, alchol, or hurting any one. And at least he's faithful to you right?! That's all that should matter any way. He's not beating you, unless you want him too. LOL! Just tell them to get over it.
2006-06-24 12:34:16 · answer #11 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋