to take revenge on someone nonviolent of course but humilating if they lied to you for 2 years and stole from you who claimed to love but has many lovers even the kids are in on the scam
2006-06-24 12:21:52 · 29 answers · asked by b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok met woman on vacation she was a shark had many fiacees or so they think
2006-06-24 12:27:59 · update #1
met her in DR she was my waitress at seafood place started dating got ingaged saw her every 3 months i would fly back to see her and the kids who called me and others papi even unprotected sex my test was ok but not good to play with people lifes like that caught her with another fiancee
2006-06-24 12:42:43 · update #2
want to let the others know
2006-06-24 12:45:14 · update #3
Wouldn't the revenge be not having you? Obviously she didn't deserve to have you. The ultimate revenge would be moving on and giving another what you gave her and she'll realize what she had. But if you want instant gratifaction then why not, but what would the kids learn from your actoins? That revenge is the only way there is to move on. That's my opinon.
2006-06-24 12:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Yeah! Humiliate them even further and go and see a therapist.You may want to have a while of couch time. Revenge is never the right thing to do after you really sit down and actually think about things. Learning to forgive and moving on sounds hookie but is actually very freeing and dignified.
I feel for whatever happened and I hope you can find inner peace and forgiving but remember that you aren't the one that's a fool in that game unless you start actually playing it. You tried to take care of a family that was lacking and you already did the worst thing too them you left. Now go find a woman that wants you and only you.
2006-06-24 19:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This answer comes from alot of experience. I have been married more than once and cheated on and deceived also. To go thru an angry phase and want revenge is natural in a sense. You have been hurt badly and want the person that hurt you to feel the same pain. But revenge is really not the answer. I always try to think that what comes around goes around. I am not a religious person but believe that every soul has to answer for themselves in the end.
2006-06-24 19:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by Suzabell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak plainly and give more details. Have you dated her two years and she stole stuff from you and you just found out?? that is really not clear for sure to me. Then you say that her kids are a scam. What does that mean?? If you want to get a good and more honest answer, you will have to reword the details. Otherwise I can just say to you --Good luck Buddy and get a lawyer if she stole things from you. Better luck next time. Revenge is sweet. Bitterness is evil. God and time will heal you. You are responsible for your actions--do what you want and what you will be able to live with. Do what is best for you and what is right for you. If you are no longer with this person then you have a right to do something. If you are still with this person and you are sure that they have lied and stolen and cheated,,, then you are a complete dumb-as and need to move on and then do what you need to do to get over it.
2006-06-24 19:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes what goes around comes around. Two wrongs don't equal a right. I say that person will get what is coming to them sooner or later. Its a fact of life. Lowering yourself to that level will only bring something negative back to you later. Revenge may feel sweet but its not the best way in the long run.
2006-06-24 19:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by El Mexicano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds corny, but the old saying is true: the best revenge is living well. That especially applies to situations like yours. Think about it - by taking any kind of revenge, you are letting this person know that you are still emotionally invested in the relationship, that you still spend (apparently) much of your time thinking about her/him, and that they still have a major hold over you. Wouldn't you rather get busy enjoying your life? By doing so you will be indirectly letting this person know that you are just fine without her/him, and oneday she/her will be sorry they let a prize like you get away!
2006-06-24 19:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe in Karma (The total effect of a person's actions and conduct during the successive phases of the person's existence, regarded as determining the person's destiny).
You don't even have to do anything revengeful. That person will get paid back for what they have done to you with bad karma. .
2006-06-24 19:27:50 · answer #7 · answered by AMANDA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are take revenge out on someone you are just as low as they are. It is not worth the energy to stoop down to their level. What they did was absolutely skanky and I would be pretty ticked off too, but really it's not worth the energy to get revenge. Justice has a way of serving itself, what goes around comes around. It may not happen right away, but don't worry, it will happen.
2006-06-24 19:27:29 · answer #8 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in 1 way it is and in another it's not. They hurt u so y can't u hurt them back but then again if think about 2 wrongs don't never make a right, so 1 of u have 2 be the bigger person and y can't it be u. u can also hurt them more by not doing any thing
2006-06-24 19:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beware of crazy people.....if you take revenge on someone crazy enough to put children in on scams, just think of what will happen if you should embarrase or humiliate that person, they might do a 180 and flip the script on you.
2006-06-24 19:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by tweeterbird73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋