i have feelings for a married man,nothing has ever happened between us and i wouldn't want it to as long as he is married. why do i have such strong feelings for him. it's not a crush as i've felt like this for quite a while (years in fact) he makes me feel so good after spending time with him. after not seeing him for a while i think i've gotten over it and then we meet up and the feeling is reignited.
2006-06-24 12:10:40 · 8 answers · asked by annie06 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's all very well people saying "get over him" and "go and find someone better" but it's not that easy if you've fallen in love. Can you not stay away from him? If after a while not seeing him you say you've gotten over him, then the best thing would be to stay away. You're better off on your own x
However, I really do believe that unrequited love is really hard to deal with, and there isn't usually enough useful advice.
2006-06-24 12:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey , im in a rather simular situation ! except age is also a biggie 4 me too !! Iive tried n tried to 4get him and just fink of us as close m8z n thats how it is at the moment , which is great ! ive gt a bf but then think of the other guy more and more ! you can either move on and have the memories and wishful thinking 4 u and him in the future orrr go and tell him , you onlylive once ! so use your time , everything is worth a dig ! nomatter wat .. or do it drunk then u have summat 2 fall back on ...just make a pass ! good luck !
2006-06-24 12:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by Smoby J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you aren't in love with him as much as you are in love with the idea of him.Try just staying away from him.You don't want to be the cause of a broken marriage and you'll never meet anyone else if you compare everybody else to him.
2006-06-24 12:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by leila rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's that addiction that women fall for married, or "taken", guys. Happens all the time. All these kinds of women like my married guy friend, and I don't get that kind of luck for being single. Mabe I should wear a fake wedding ring........
2006-06-24 12:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by SlothMachine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be because you know its forbidden love...If he was able to return your love he wouldn't be married.
Find other things to fill your life & maybe some-one who is Free to love you back as you deserve.
Your love for this man can't go anywhere without heart ache.
Please listen to your common sense & pray to God that you never get in that situation when you eventually marry & your Husband does it on you.
2006-06-24 12:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by skippy's mum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That shyt sux too, when someone shows back up when you think you are done with them, been there done that as they say. It's hard to shake them off I know, it's almost like they are a part of you. I think they show back up just to keep the fire burning. they sense it also.
2006-06-24 12:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he will mess with you he will mess on you
besides you don't need to degrade yourself be wanting sold goods
2006-06-24 12:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think too much about that.
2006-06-24 12:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by todaywiserthanyesterday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋