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You can justify anything if you if you force yourself to believe it.

2006-06-24 12:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by qti36 3 · 2 1

It depends on the situation:

1. If the husband knows that his wife was with another man and doesn't care then to her its ok.
2. if she isn't married and has sex with a married man and he has been seperated for more than four months and is not going to be with his wife again then the woman that is having sex isn't to blame for splitting the married couple up.

Normally its not justifiable. Look at all the stars.. Angelina and Brad, Brad was married before he split with Jennifer Aniston and Angelina was already messing around with Brad while he was married to Jen Aniston.

Normal people see the stars do it and every one thinks that it is normal to do that.. It seems that some people are pushing their own morals aside to please someone else or since everyone is ok with it it is justified.

2006-06-24 19:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i dont think its a matter of justifying. there are deffinate reasons for it i think though. in fact, i cheated on my husband and there are various ''reasons''. does that make it right ? NO! by no means. in some situations its a deeper issue. my husband chose to forgive me and im thankful for that. its a hard situation thats for sure. if your the cheater or the cheatee... the cheater will feel regret and guilt FOR YEARS TO COME and the cheatee will have trust issues and question, possibly unanswered. the thing is is that its a 2 way street. alot of times there is a "why "behind it all. i think its important for both sides to get closure on that important "why".
justify, isnt always the topic... dont look at it that way find the problem that was BEFORE the infidelity. good luck

2006-06-24 19:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by Emily C 1 · 0 0

Brother (or sister), there is no moral justification for breaking marriage vows, and betraying the one you have promised to love forever.

However, there are plenty of people who don't consider moral values an important part of their decision process -- my x-(cheating)-husband was one. And, no, affairs don't "just happen" -- adults make decisions, and need to be held accountable for their own "mistakes".

Wouldn't it be a nicer world if people DID allow moral values to help make more of their decisions?

2006-06-24 19:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by mother_jazz 2 · 0 0

it's a human mistake nevermind if a woman cheats on her husband it means there's a lack somewhere finally we all need affection but try seeking affection in the right place with the right person. morals are dicipline not rules

2006-06-24 19:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by cactus 3 · 0 0

I don't think they can MORALLY justify themselves but just to justify in general...most women say they do it because they are unhappy with their spouse or partner.

2006-06-24 19:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0 0

she blames it on him, he didn't make her happy after she kept telling him she was unhappy, everything is his fault. that attitude has to leave some baggage behind though. you can't blame someone else and have a clear mind. I have to wander if she doesn't make herself unhappy just to justify her lack of morals.

2006-06-24 19:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Read your bible and get on your knees and ask the Lord Jesus Christ to forgive you for your sins. Later, ask God and pray that you resist temptations through him and never allow this to happen again. It's a good feeling when you're in heat with one another, but after you through you feel nasty and deceitful. Free yourself from Satan's lust he wants to see you burn in hell!

2006-06-24 19:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by Shawn J 2 · 0 0

She doesn't. There is no moral justification for cheating on a spouse.

Best wishes and God bless.

2006-06-24 19:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by bobhayes 4 · 0 0

they think that as long as that married man is a sinner too then it's OK and that maybe they were in love or seduced.

2006-06-24 19:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by Frankie 3 · 0 0

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