i just want to make sure before i come out.
2006-06-24 11:55:11 · 7 answers · asked by chris d 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you demonstrate the "likes" that gay people find irrestible in modern-day society... it should only be a part of Murphy's Law. If your best friend likes the same things you demonstrate, he WILL fall in love with you. I might as well call this the Gay Murphy's Law or Murphy's Gay Law.
Truth is: a lot of gay guys fantasize about their close (or best) friends. Sometimes the temptation gets to be so dreaded that they'll act out on it. But most of the time... they lie in silent repose, hoping for the one day that they'll best friend make the first move. Quite sad, if you ask me... but what can you do?
A lot of people lack the "huevos" to step up and tell their best friends how they feel. It's much safer to express nonchalant and friendly love, especially if you think that expressing passionate, sweating, mind-numbing love will be a dangerous and stupid thing to do.
If I only had more energy to type. Email me if you want to discuss it.
2006-06-24 13:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by masterdeath01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousin is gay. So is the kid I grew up with across the street. My relationship with them has no bearing on their sexual orientation. If a person abandons you after you come out then that small minded person wasn't your friend after all.
2006-06-24 12:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jadzia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ten to one says that your closest friends do not have the same sexual interests as you. But, if he is a good friend he will understand when you tell him.
2006-06-24 12:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by dannyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i knew my best friend was gay before he came out, lol, and infact we did very much enjoy each other. (yes in bed)
2006-06-26 16:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he didn't like me. He was just horny like the guys that go for girls.
2006-06-24 11:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, its not a problem
2006-06-24 12:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-06-24 12:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by dick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋