hes really cute and hot!
2006-06-24 11:33:34 · 17 answers · asked by nihalq521 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Well whats he like and dislike? You find this out there you have it ... but this will require you usually be someone you are not. I know you don't probably want to hear this but .. I'd say if he doesn't like you for who you are now, or notice you ... forget him .. be true to yourself. There is someone more worth while out there for you, believe me I know.
2006-06-24 11:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by Bad 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First of all, honey, you need to respect yourself. If you go out there acting all desperate and throw yourself at the guy, he will use you like a little toy. Don't ever lower your standards to be with some cute guy that you feel you cannot live without. Second, be yourself. If you were raised to be a respectable young woman (I'm guessing you are a young woman) stay that way. Third, start out by saying hello and have casual conversation every now and then. In all, either you will find out that this cute guy is worth getting to know or he could be a complete jerk. Just because he is cute does not mean that he is right for you. Looks can be deceiving so be cautious. Go by a christian book store and find a book about relationships and staying respectable. I have a teenager and this issomething that we talk about all of the time. Take your time, enjoy life, and stay focused on school (once again I am thinking you are a young woman). You have plenty of time to meet THE ONE.
2006-06-24 19:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Safire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Nihal:
You can not force love.
1) Be a friend.
2) Looks and glamour last as long as you can afford it or until your skin/body rebel against the abuse of fake tans (cancer), harsh chemicals and makeup - speeds up aging process, drinking and/or drugs ~ dead brain cells and possible death. Beauty really in in the eye of beholder. If he prefers flaky, plastic chicks then THAT IS HIS CHOICE and so be it. If that is not you then why be it?
3) Be yourself - present yourself as you want ot be seen. If you style is classic - be classic. If it is prep ~ be prep.
4) Great fitting clothes on a clean body (i.e. not smelly with perfume either) , excellent manners including telephone manners, clean teeth and a great smile trumps plastic every time.
5) If the guy just wants to get laid, do not even go there. Nothing is worse ~except an STD or AIDS~ than sacraficing your self-esteem and greatest gift as well as your heart to someone who collects notches on his bed post. Yes, it will hurt but in hindsight ~ being 50/50 ~ you will be happy that you dd not waste time on someone with the depth of a purple puddle.
6) If I am off base with this advice so be it but I really really believe that the best rule of relationships is friends first before a romp in the hay. Besides, he may appreciate not being used for his body as well and may like having a girl as a friend first then possibly something later. You will both enrich your own lives by sharing friendship.
Take good care of yourself,
2006-06-24 18:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by anctemple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself,if he don't like you for you then he doesn't deserve you. (Those cute/hot guys really do make you weak at the knees though,I've been there) Just be friendly (try not to be nervous), talkative (guys like girls that can carry on a conversation), be sweet and have a sense of humor. Wear cute flirty clothes (just not anything to reveling) and wear some make-up (but not to much, make it very natural and pretty). And remember to smile! I hope I've been of some help to you! Best Wishes and God Bless!
2006-06-24 18:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by butterflykissesklh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be really confident about who and how you are. Be positive and nice. Keep a smile on! A very alluring and true one... show that you are a fun girl- and play hard to get! I've heard it drives guys wild ;) My point is, confidence will most definately win the guy over. Good luck! Wishing you the best between the both of you! =)
2006-06-24 18:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if lots of girls like him too and are always like bugging him and flirting with him don't do that. Make sure you have a good attitude too. Cause if you act like all snoby and stuff then he will probably not like you. Try to stick out though. Don't blend in on the cround. Guys like that. Good Luck.
2006-06-24 18:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by bahamianchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always look cute and try to get his attention but dont make yourself look too desperate.
2006-06-24 18:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by americas model 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be youself and don`t try to be anyone else. it will make you seem really desperate and you do not want him to know that even though inside, you really are. just basically be yourself & if he doesnt like the "real you" then forget him. i mean guys that want their girls to change arent really liking their girls for who they are but for who they are trying to be or change into. just be youself and it will probably work out.
2006-06-24 19:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by Andrea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET A WING GIRL! Wing girls help you to get your guy. Wing girls can talk to the guy for you. They can also sit with him, then you can walk by, your wing girl can make up an excuse to leave, and you'll be able to talk to your crush. Oh, and you have to be your wing girl's wing girl, you can wing girl for eachother.
2006-06-24 18:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by Adriana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety you can't force any one to like you they like you on there on will so be yourself and just hope for it just pray for him to like you ok not trying to be funny bye
2006-06-24 18:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋