I moved to my studio-apartment on new job.I had best only male friend(hes family friends son)5yrs over for lunch,i cooked for him.we sat on couch he kissed me ive never had first date first kiss hes experienced im not but hes respected me.He carried me to bed where he made love to me with clothes no penetration as i told him i wanted to wait till marriage.He respected my wish.Its awesome intense passionate moaning grinding against eachother i felt his hardness against me he had me on him after cumming he kissed my forehead had me sleep on his chest pulled covers on me today morning he made breakfast eggs he kissed me he said he loves me took me out for day lunch dinner proposed marriage with diamond ring in beach.I said yes.My first relationship 1 male bestfriend first last love im not experienced hes experienced will it last?i never want to loose him i love him as much as he loves me but hes my bestfriend too i loose both if he finds me inexperienced/looses interest/finds other.Advice
2006-06-24 11:30:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
SOULMATE-TRUE LOVE-FAIRY TALE
2006-06-25 09:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How lucky are you to have a guy to lay next to you and leave your clothes on and then propose. Wow and you afraid to go further because he is experienced, if you keep on worrying about your relationship not working because he is experienced then you may sabotage it. You will need to leave his past in the past if you both are to have a future. If you can work hard at forgetting that then there is no reason why a marriage should not work because we all have a past and there are plenty of marriages that work because opposites really do attract. Let go of his past for the sake of your future happiness! Good Luck and congratulations on your engagement !!
2006-06-24 11:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by theresa l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SLOW DOWN!!!! Thats what you do. Tell him how you feel but that you need time to be sure. Dont rush into anything. If you two are really meant for each other and really love each other waiting wont hurt. He will understand if he loves you. So if he wants you to accept his ring, that is up to you, BUT dont set any date or go any further sexually than you originally said (married) See how just dating him goes for 6 months to a year. If you are both really in love you can thin about setting a date in a year. Its not that long to wait in terms of forever, BUT it will be too long if he is just looking for more or you are reacting to passion. Good Luck, I hope it works out for you!
2006-06-24 11:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by mom910 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't try to take your clotheas off, and proposed to you, something is going right. If he respected you, then whaat more could you ask for. The best way to spend the rest of your life, is with someone who is not just your lover, but your best friend is great. If he can't wit or gets msd b/c you aren't as experirnced as him, then you don't need him. Life is all about risk so take go for it! It sounds like real love, congrats!
2006-06-24 11:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by *FLIRTACIOUS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you and want to marry you, sex is not what's important. You will not lose him because of inexperience. Being in love with each other can make the whole earth seem to shake when you are making love whether you think you know what you are doing or not. If you worry to much about how good you are when it comes to sex you will feel even more uncomfortable. Just relax and think he wants you just as much as you want him.
2006-06-24 11:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys are already A LOT into each other..all I can say is that if you feel that you can't think of anyone else & the moment you do..get out..love is not there if your still thinking of other guys But if your TOTALLY consumed by him then you now it's for real!!:) Have fun & keep it safe:)
2006-06-24 11:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't confuse lust for love, neither of you had these feelings until the dry humping started. now all the sudden it's love. it's hormones . you are in a new area, you are vulnerable and he knows this, he may not do it intentionally but be careful . if he had of been the cable guy, you would have started to cling to him. you want something secure to latch on to. give yourself some time to get use to the new area before you start thinking of investing your life because of some dry humping.
2006-06-24 11:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start going out with and knowing him in the level as a relationship not just a bestfriend it could work out but your going to fast and jumping into conclusion
2006-06-24 11:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but asking one to marry is a huge committment and you just dont throw that away unless:
all he wants from you is to be YOUR first and nothing more, since he KNOWS you are waiting for marriage and he only proposed because of this reason.
be careful!!!!
just take your time and talk to each other, a marriage will work only if there is OPEN COMMUNICATION no guessing what the other will do.
so my advice: talk to him and be honest and listen to what he says.
2006-06-24 11:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys get married, basically what keeps marriage alive is treating the other how you want to be treated, and loving him even though he may not be nice to you sometimes. if you're a christian, you can pray and ask Jesus to be with you both all the time and give you patience. sounds like a fairy tale to me.
2006-06-24 11:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fairytale. Next step premarital counseling. Good luck.
2006-06-24 11:35:49 · answer #11 · answered by frontmann2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋