and all he does is feel on ya and when u tell him 2 stop he gets made. what do that mean and what should i do? im 17 and he is 18 and he is about to go to college. we have been together for a month and twenty four days, some one help me plz. even celebrity advice can be given. thanks.
2006-06-24 11:25:41 · 11 answers · asked by gangsta_star07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like he may be confusing love and sex as being the same thing. Build a relationship first, unless all you want is to be a sex toy. If he has true love for you, and not just infatuation, he will respect that and back off. If he doesn't, you will have to choose to live with him feeling on you, etc, or to find someone who has a real respect for you as a person.
2006-06-24 12:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've witnessed this first hand and in full detail from a guy like that's like that's perspective. It was my brother and I didn't approve of how he did this to all of his gf's. But he would act the same, or tell them he could wait and he loved them. Really they were just another addition to his climbing score list. He's just telling you that he loves you because he believes it's what you want to here. If that's all he does, and he can't respect your views and feelings on waiting -- he's only interested in having sex with you. I would do some homework on his formers and who he else he 'might' be trying to charm the pants off of as well, literally. You deserve far better than that.
2006-06-29 21:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by ~Mother Of Angels~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is celebrity advice? lol... anyways... at 18 is a guys sexual peak in life ... he wants it all the time! either give it too him or some-one else will... real talk. if you feel used, then break it up.... hes going away anyway...lesson learned... and yeah you must be 17 if you know the months and days...lol.. good luck
2006-06-24 18:40:52 · answer #3 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he only thinks about is sex if he gets made with you for stopping him. If he cant respect you when you tell him to stop, then you needs to find another guy.
2006-06-24 18:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he wants to go to college not as a virgin so he is trying to get some
don't be with someone like that becuase one of these days when you say no he will say yes
and do things to you that you don't like
get away now
GOOD LUCK
2006-06-24 18:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by citygirl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't understand that your not ready to go that far than he doesn't love you he just wants to see how far you will let him go if he says those magic words. sounds to me like your wasting your time with this guy. you need someone who will love you and RESPECT you at the same time and doesn't sound to me like he does.
2006-06-24 18:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not ready dont do it. and if your man doesnt respect your wishes, as you said he gets mad then i would get rid of him. and dont let him use i am going away routine, you will know when the time is right for you.
2006-06-24 18:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With your details I understnd that he dosnt love you and just want to use you.It's very owful.you cant do anything but you can BREAK UP!!! Yes just do it and try to have sex with someone who likes you and you like him...
2006-06-24 19:26:30 · answer #8 · answered by amiragha45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR A SEXUAL ENCOUNTER, I SUGGEST , YOU HOOK-UP WITH SOMEONE ELSE. HE IS INTERESTED IN SCORING AND MOVING ON.
HE DEFINITELY WILL KEEP ON SAYING WHAT HE THINKS YOU WANT TO HEAR. (ie. I'M GOING TO COLLEGE, THIS IS FOR GOOD LUCK AND MEMORY,etc,)
2006-06-24 18:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by SLOWTHINKER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, he'll respect your boundaries.
2006-06-24 19:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋