He got into trouble for sexual harrassment. He has been making remarks that are inappropriate to the female servers and hostesses. He is the manager of a restaurant. I saw the write-up and was completely crushed by what I read. I feel completely betrayed by him. What can I do? I am extremely embarrassed and ashamed of my husband for doing something like this. Is there a way to move on from this? He has cheated on me before so I already didn't trust him. Where can we go from here? For me, there is only so much forgiveness.....................
2006-06-24 11:22:49 · 12 answers · asked by Sissy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would say move on.. not only does he have no respect for other women, but you as his wife, you should be getting the most.
He thought nothing of your feelings when he was doing it.. and now that it is out in the open.. how does he feel???
I would say if he shows no remorse.. don't even bother... move on.. life is too short.. and us women are settling for jerks!!
2006-06-24 11:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by emeraldeyesmiles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is the type that gets off by flirting with girls. It is his only way to feel good. I am sure in his postion as a manager he gets some attention back or he wouldn;t continuely do it. He has no resepct for you and is trying to live 2 lives. This is not fair for you and what don;t you know about?? I am sure you got that GUT feeling something is up so if I was you I would try to slowly find other things to do so itt is easier to move on....you deserve better
2006-06-24 18:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't give up on your marriage...there is a way to solve this problem....have u ever thought that maybe he is very friendly ..would u really like him more if he didn't talk to the opposite sex...what attracted him to u was it his flirty way..a lot of men are like that just don't want their wives to know it..this can be fixed without a divorce..u guys need to start talking more..put the attention back on u..let him look just don't let him touch...and if all fells u start flirting or looking at other guys let him see what hes been putting u through you guys got married for a reason..don't forget what the reason was...you can forgive just don't forget..and don't throw it in his face alot..but u do need to talk about this problem with or with out counceling...and dont forget hes a very friendly person...work with that...use it to your advantage..in my marriage i kinda quite being a wife so he started looking elsewhere and i had to beome a wife again and it saved our marriage...now we have a wonderful marriage...DONT GIVE UP
2006-06-24 18:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by bllnickie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like my first husband. Believe me it will not work for you. He will not grow up. My first husband never did. He was married 3 times after me and they all failed. I hope you do not have kids. If you do then do not worry it will all work out. I had 3 when I left him and I got married once and am still married. He is everything I did not have the first time. Good Luck.
2006-06-24 18:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Sunflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Sounds like a dog. Most guys who act like this always will. What was his excuse?? If children are involved it sucks because you feel u need to stay for them. U say he's cheated before. Get out. Divorce him and take everything. Believe me I'm a man.
2006-06-24 18:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by Shawn D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your troubles, but I think you've had enough. He's got to go. You couldn't be any worse without hi. You will never trust him again, so don't put yourself through it. Good luck.
2006-06-24 18:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional help
2006-06-24 19:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by qti36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to seek counseling
2006-06-24 18:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by rorphe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say get a divorce. He doesn't sound very respectful to women.
2006-06-24 18:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for counseling, you might still have a chance to work it all out.
2006-06-24 18:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋