2006-06-24 11:15:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
then you are not married. he is using you and you are letting him. you are doing everything and he is taking atvantage of what you are letting him take atvatage of. dont let him do this to you, dont give him any money, dont give him any love, dont give him anything. let him work hard like you do. let him cook his own food, let him go out with his friends if he wants.let him do what he wants but change the locks on the door. if he wants to be with his friends then let him live with them.he doesnt help you or be resposible then you dont need him.why would you want to take care of him like he is your kid. he is suppose to be your lover not your kid that you have to take care of, he is suppose to be caring for you, how can he care for you when he isnt home.you dont need himgoodl uck.
2006-06-24 11:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he like this before you got married? If so then y did u marry him? Is there kids involved in this marriage? If no kids are involved then I'd say go w/ your friends, do what u want just as he is. If kids are involved then it's a lil' bit different story. Cause someone needs to be there for them, and if he's not willing to, then that only leaves you. But that doesn't mean you can't go have fun too. If he didn't want the responsibility, then he shouldn't of gotten married. But, sometimes, ppl don't think about what marriage is all about until they're stuck. Maybe sit and talk to him, tell him how you feel. There's nothing wrong w/either one of you going out on occassion w/ your friends, but you need time out together too.
2006-06-24 18:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by leslie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that same problem. We have kids together and once he started hanging out with "player type" friends he started trying to be one... If he doesnt; want to stay with you then he is getting female attention somewhere. Guys need female attention. it is a natural thing. His friends have no respect for a marriage and this is giving them the idea that they are so special because he chose them. I would ignore him, go out with your friends, if he still insists to choose his friends then girl you better go noew before you get more hurt...good luck
2006-06-24 18:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
pay back time!
have a girls night out, have your parents watch the kids if you have any and the night that he decides to go out with his friends you do the same thing. get all dressed up and have some fun. if he doesnt like it tell him "well now you see how i feel"!
2006-06-24 18:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Responsibility for the kids? If so delegate him to watch the kids while you go out with your friends or get a massage or something you enjoy doing.
2006-06-24 18:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why don't you go w/ him are the wifes of the other men there. you need to get out and have some fun try some shopping make you might wont to think of something to do for him to get him to stay home on a fri or sat night. MAKE HIM WANT TO STAY HOME. TRY SOMETHING OUTSIDE OF THE BOX PUT SOMETHING ON SEXY AND PLAY W/ HIM LET HIM CHASE IT THAN PUT IT ON HIM ROUGH.............have fun
2006-06-24 18:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by you have ? i have a answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels that you are not sexy enough,because all men want a pretty woman on his arm every now and then.You should pop up on him to see what woman that is.
2006-06-24 18:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by Redd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a couple of lovers. That'll teach the sod!
2006-06-24 18:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by Tokoloshimani 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One day you'll just get tired of it, when the time is right and you'll just leave and never look back.
2006-06-24 18:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kristi A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Tell him to go live with his friends.
2006-06-24 18:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋