.My step-father and mom said they will sighn for us to get married and now they think i am to immature. He already has a school picked out for me and I am 100% sure he is the 1 for me. What should I do?They wont let me marry the love of my life and now i get so upset i get sick. I have done some wrong in the past to make my mom and Step-dad upset what should i do? How do I kiss up to them to sighn the papers?
2006-06-24 11:14:59 · 17 answers · asked by Babygrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I helped pick the school to we were both looking togher and selecting them..Ya know private schools. He found it and i liked it more than the one i picked.
2006-06-24 11:25:00 · update #1
Kiss major *** until you get them to sign it.... or stay and wait until you're 18.... good luck.
2006-06-24 11:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. Why the hell did he pick out a school for you?
If you were my kid I wouldn't want you jumping into some marriage with some guy that's picking out a school for you.
Anyways, if you want to marry him so bad, and he's the one for you, then why not wait a few years? If he's so great and you're so sure, it shouldn't make much of a difference if you put off the marriage.
Unless of course, you're worried he might leave you if you dont or something- in which case you aren't ready for marriage.
2006-06-24 18:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by Velocity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely no rush to get married. The best thing to do is wait until you're AT LEAST 18, preferably older. Many people get married young and grow to regret it. Marriage can wait, I'd recommend getting through college first, then worry about a family.
2006-06-24 18:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by fictionalpoet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How young are you? If you're really 100% sure that this is the one, he'll still be the one in a couple years when you can sign for yourself. At least, I hope it's just a couple ... and what do you mean, "he already has a school picked out for me"? You're really not clear on your situation, but from wording, etc, let me just tell you: they make those laws for a reason.
2006-06-24 18:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by staubfinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r you? Don't get married too young. If he is the love of your life then he will be willing to wait until the time is right. Make sure because marriage is a huge commitment.
2006-06-24 18:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young.
Marriage is not easy... It's not like in the movies. It has its ups and downs. If this guy is the love of your life, he should wait for you. And if he truly loves you, he shouldn't have a problem waiting. Keep dating him, going out with him, and having fun.
Marriage has a lot of responsablities.
2006-06-24 18:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mannie-mannie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get married yet. yes you are in love but give it some time untill your atleast 18.
tell your bf yes when u turn 18. i am 20 and my gf is 17. i asked her to marry her but instead of an ingagment ring we call it a promice ring cuz we promice we will get married when we are ready and adults.
2006-06-24 18:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married before 18.Just wait please. You will miss out on sooo much of your life. You can stay with your guy but why marry?Especially if your under 18. Being married and making it work is really really hard.
2006-06-24 18:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by rdnckgrl0215 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until u r 18
2006-06-24 18:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents have to sign papers saying it is ok for you to get married you are too young to be married.
2006-06-25 12:35:07 · answer #10 · answered by prmb1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋