He is on meds for his anger issues, but when he dont take them , i can tell....he makes me cry, he can be so mean. he picks at everything i do, nothing is right. we have a child together. when i confront him about it , he says "oh i forgot, you dont do nothing wrong"...but when i ask what did i do wrong, he can never answer. he blames me for his blow ups, he says his medicines dont help him, he says i am the one who needs help. I cant even talk to him calmly about this situation because he will just say I am nagging or being a ***** to him. i know i have my faults, but i do not blow up at him for no reason . He complains at me and nothing i do is right....something is always wrong. what should i do???
2006-06-24 10:56:21 · 4 answers · asked by carebear2804 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kick him to the curb!! I just left an 11 year marriage with 2 children, and yes I get lonely sometimes, but I know what I'm coming home to. I no longer get nit picked or yelled at, and if he calls and is being an @#& I just hang up. I'm calmer and more at peace than I have been in years. His bad temper and blow ups are not your fault!! Get yourself into counseling, you are a worthwhile person. Do you want to raise your child to be a verbal punching bag, like you. Or a verbal abuser like him, kids learn what they live. Good Luck.
2006-06-24 11:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by kevenoz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Carebear, why would you want to stay where someone makes you feel this way? You could and would feel better if you didn't have this to deal with. Of course he will always blame you for all the problems because he doesn't want to deal with them so it is much easier to blame others instead of ourselves. He is not happy and he wants to make sure you and everyone around him is the same. Don't allow this to bring you down. If you feel there is still love in your marriage then by all means work on it but remember if only one is doing the work it will not get done.
2006-06-30 17:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not going to change or treat you any better...If you can't even talk to him about the situation on how you feel best to start thinking about a divorce...May be hard but after its all done you will be so much more happy and regain your selfconfidence back..Take charge of your live you don't owe it to him be happy and good luck!!!!
2006-06-24 11:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce or be miserable for the rest of your life.
2006-06-24 11:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋