i went on a date with this guy i met last week and he already wants 2 hav sex?

Question

i told him i didnt hav my condems but he sed we'd be careful but we wernt and i think i might be pregnant!!i did i do the right thing???

Answer 1

stupid - girl

Answer 2

You already know that you did not do the right thing, in several ways. Why the heck do people think that sex is just an extension of going on a date or even just meeting someone at a bar - not even knowing their last name?!? It is supposed to be something that is an extension of deep love for your mate, the person you make a commitment to that lasts longer than the blink of an eye. And why the heck did you agree to it when you were not even protected? You have no idea if this guy has any sexual diseases, is a perv, has baggage, anything. What could you possibly know in just one week?!? I just don't get it. Now you are worried about being pregnant? The time to think about that is BEFORE sex, not afterward. It would be like the difference between having the only glass of water in the world and deciding to spill it out into the sand, then thinking well gosh now I am thirsty - but gee, it was the only water left in the world and there is now nothing to drink. Gosh. When are people going to think before leaping into crap like this? You have a long life ahead of you, why are you rushing to wreck your options for a great one just for a few minutes of getting it on with someone that you don't even know, much less are not in love with?

Answer 3

I read a story about an abductor who ordered a girl into his car. She was scared to death but got into the car meekly and willingly. She was saved by an intervening brave-heart dear lady. The point that baffles me is why the girl willingly got into the car even though she knew she shouldn't. How did that happen. My God girl! Say no.
Well, you can't cry over spilled milk. It's done. Regardless of what happens, you need to learn to be more assertive. You went meekly to the slaughter, just like that nine year old above. You just met this guy last week and you certainly don't love him and he doesn't love you. Duh, so he wants to have sex! So what! Are you going to give it up for anyone? Come on girl! Do you want to be a mommy at this age; do you want to contract the hundreds of STD's out there? It is your life. Quit allowing peer groups and other folks from running your life and ruining it. You run your own life. I sure hope for your sake that you escape the consequences of your rash and foolish actions. You need a little grace here. Good luck.

Answer 4

I can't get upset with you too much because I did the same thing once when I was younger. I didn't get pregnant but I wish that I wouldn't have done it. You really should be careful cause you don't know this guy and he might not stick around for you if you get pregnant. Not to mention AIDS and other STD's. I've just finally been tested negative for AIDS after four years and it was such a strain not to know if this guy I didn't know had given me something. Please be careful.

Answer 5

First of all i advice you to go to the docter & let him do tests on you to see if you have any kind of disiease & a test on to make sure if you are pregnant.Many boys can be pushy when it comes to sex, but they aren't thinking about how it can lead to all sorts of ugly consequences. Speaking of that, did you know that it's estimated that one in every four teens has an STD?You didn't make the right choice you should have let him respect you.If you are pregnant,you need to tell him & tell him you'll both need to take kare of the baby.Know your self-worth, and realize that you're important--you deserve to be with someone who is patient and allows you to make the choices you want.

Answer 6

I'm going to make this a plan and simple. Nooooooooo!!!!!! You didnt do the right thing. It seems as if all he wanted was sex. But if thats what you want then HEY I cant stop you, but next think twice about the situation

Answer 7

ummm... I think you already know the answer to that one..

anyways, you can't change what happened, you made a bad choice, but don't beat yourself up about it, jsut learn from it! I did something similar when I was 15, and luckily I wasn't pregnant, but I did get genital herpes, so you might wanna get that checked.

If you are late for your period, all you can do is take a pregnacy test, and pray for the best! if you can, tell the guy, and maybe he might be great about it and be willing to help you out.

best wishes!

Answer 8

No! This is how ppl spread STD's and get pregnant. Go to a clinic & get checked out! Women typically don't show symptoms of things like chlamydia, syphillis, HPV, HIV, gonorrhea, the first few months of herpes... pregnancy is the least of your problems. You probably just contracted something for life.

Answer 9

you are not the only one who has made this mistake, that is how most of us got here, but what you should most definately do is get tested for any STD's and pregnancy, becasue if he was willing to have unprotected sex with you I'm sure he is willing to do it with anyone else and you can't account for what those people may have. So just vow to never make this same mistake again and get tested!

Answer 10

You just meant this guy. I don't mean to hurt your feelings but he is not no good. That is the only thing on his mind id sex. You should not have sex and not married. You need to ask God to frogive you from your sins. And get saved.

Answer 11

hell no, you acted like a slut, now you might have to raise a kid on your own, and even have some awful disease, and i am sure no sex is worth all that. If you get lucky and are OK this time, be smarter in the future.