hi i feel lonely and upset sometimes and feel like running away coz am been negleted by my own family and i wa

Question

this is helfigure help me anyone

Answer 1

This happens when people are neglected. Find something you like to do and make friends who are positive. Sometimes, even having friends through the internet gives you something to look forward to, and it can help boost your confidence and self-esteem and not make you feel like you want to run away. And of course, make a personality of your own, so that your family can notice you and appreciate your inner beauty! :)

Answer 2

I'm sorry but I have to be mean here. TRY living in a family of seven where you are the only female,do all the chores,cook for six men(20-35),do their laundry and sometimes do stuff they're supposed to do like mow the lawn and wash cars AND after everything,they think you're not doing enough. IF that is not neglect,I don't know what is.

I'm a bit older so it doesn't faze me. People or rather kids of today want to be cuddled and coddled and praised for every little thing and be the center of attention. Sorry Kid but that's not how the real world works. You wanna run away? Go right ahead and after a day on the streets,you'd run back home. The grass is not always greener on the other side. SUCK IT UP AND BE GRATEFUL YOU GOT A FAMILY TO START WITH. At least you weren't abandoned by your parents at birth and left to the mercy of the foster care system.
The same parents who neglect you feed you,pay school fees and buy things for you,don't they? HOW IS THAT NEGLECT? GROW UP AND REALIZE THAT YOU ARE BLESSED TO EVEN HAVE A FAMILY MOST PEOPLE WILL DO ANYTHING TO HAVE

Answer 3

I really don't know how old you are my dear, but evidently you still live at home so you must be younger. However, Running away is never the answer. I understand that smoetimes in the world we live in it seems like there are a lot of people who doesn't care. But there are. I don't know what kind of homelife you live in, but If you feel like you are being neglected because you are not allowed to do certain things or you parents have strict rules on you, this makes them good parents. I have two small children and it wasn't long ago when I was in your shoes. Sometimes we as parents have to do things because it is for the best. I know it doesn't always seem this way but it is true. we do things because we love our children and we have been THAT age before. You will understand some day. And it will be that day when you have children and look back and realize what it was your parents were talking about. and you will thank them for loving you enough to keep you safe and out of trouble. However, if your parents are abusing you in some way wether it be physically, mentally, or sexually, then you should go to your school counselor and ask for help. I hope this helps and may God bless you. Take care. Oh and if you would like someone to talk to, you can email me. I'll be more than happy to talk.

Answer 4

Cool down gal.........almost everyone go through this feelings in their respective lives. The outcome is always negative. Do not run away. Take this as a challenge, face it. Try to find out why your family is negleting you. Are they busy, has other important matters to think about, or purposely doing that. You must identify this first. Then its time for you to take actions. Try to talk with your family members about this. If there is no good reaction, then try to consult with a friend. If still not good, then be creative. We are human. Our ability to think is very high. Try to find a way to dismiss the lonely feeling in you by doin something. Hobbies, outing, sports, social works,....etc. Running away is not going to solve anything trust me. Things might get even worst. Sometimes the world out there is more cruel than what your experiencing now. Anyway this is all i can say to you. Hope you will make the correct decission. Take Care.......Good Luck!!!

Answer 5

running away never solves any problems because they follow you wherever you go. This only compiles it. I've ran away before and because of similar situations. But the truth is if you run away you will not have solved any problems. The world will have moved on with out you when you decide to come back. Plus, where wouoold you go. I've been to alot of places here in the U.S. But for some reason I always came home. MAybe that's where the heart is. I am home now and I definitly don't feel like running away anymore. It is lonely out there. You get hungry out there. And there are crazy people out there. Find someone you can talk to, someone you can trust. FAce your problems now so that you won't have to deal with it for the rest of your life. Don't be stuck on somebody else's stupidity. Move on.

Answer 6

I don't know why, but sometimes there is someone in a family who always gets the short end of the stick. Hang on until you
finish school. Then get a job or go in the military service. Anything to get away from them. Once you graduate from high school put as much distance as possible between you and them.
That means supporting yourself financially. Take my advice, you will not be sorry you did.

Answer 7

I'm sorry you feel lonely. Running away probably won't help with your problems though, it would probably make them worse, and you would be even more alone. Have you tried talking to anyone in your family to tell them how you are feeling? Do you have a friend you can talk to?
Sometimes we feel these things for a time, but then things get better. Hang in there and feel free to email me.

Answer 8

I feel neglected a lot also. I mean my parents are divorced and I live with my mom who comes home after work stressed and upset, so when I try talking to her she doesn't pay attention. anyway this is about you not me. Take it from the experienced running away sucks. both my brother and I have tried it, not only did we nearly starve, but when we came back home our life was a living hell. My advice to you is if you have siblings become best buds with them, and if you don't have siblings find a good friend that can relate to you. other than that it is all up to you to feel good about yourself. Good Luck. and PLEASE don't ever run away from home.

Answer 9

If you are being ignored by your family, you need to voice your needs to them. If no response, I know it sounds harsh, but get over it. They are not going to change, so you need to be the one who does. Set a goal for yourself that doesn't involve anyone else but yourself, like reading War and Peace or something. Get your self-esteem up, and then you will begin to attract the attention of positive people. I can tell you from experience, if you are raised by people who make you feel neglected, you will attract people who neglect, or take advantage of you for the rest of your life.

Answer 10

Find some kind of positive group or club to join and stick it out with your family until your old enough to take care of yourself.