Why do men always want to have sex after a fight?

Question

After my husband and I argue, that night he always seems extra horney. So why does he always want to have sex after we fight? Sometimes I'm still angry, and just want to sleep it off. While his sexual side it raging for attention?

Answer 1

My hubby did the same thing. I finally divorced him because problems were never really handled - sex does not address problems.

I think men get turned on for things that women take seriously. Go figure.

Answer 2

Sex After Fighting

Answer 3

Well when we fight, our blood pressure goes up, and often it rushes below our belt, and you know what blood does down there too.
Also men nearly always want sex, so that should be no surprise. And it is a fun way of making up, isn't it.

Answer 4

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Why do men always want to have sex after a fight?
After my husband and I argue, that night he always seems extra horney. So why does he always want to have sex after we fight? Sometimes I'm still angry, and just want to sleep it off. While his sexual side it raging for attention?

Answer 5

I have heard of alot of couples doing that. I think it relieves the tension for some and for others it's like making up by doing the most intimate thing you can do between a couple. Maybe some do it to release any anger they might have. You should try it and ravage him to take any anger out him that u may have. Is he rough when u do it after a fight?.. maybe it will help instead of sleeping it off. My X would stay mad at me for weeks at a time.. even if it was a stupid arguement.. I hated her for it cuz she wouldnt even talk to me or even tell me she loved me for at least 8-9 days.

Answer 6

There's a book "Why men love Bitches." You should read it. =)

But basically, men are more attracted to a woman when he is afraid of losing her, or feels there's a challenge in the "hunt".

If you're bold enough to get mad at him, then you're bold enough to possibly leave. He must conquer! Haha.

Of course, he could also be a closet Submissive. You being dominating and yelling might just turn him on really bad in the aftermath.

Answer 7

Honestly, I think it is an adrenaline thing. I have noticed that after being in a fight, or wrestling with her, I am hugely aroused. It is weird. However, I think it is not a harmful thing. Also, men can smell a woman's pheromones...and when a woman is worked up...the pheromones are a rolling.

Answer 8

I knew this chick who did a survey - brought it to work and everything - for her college class. She hypothesized that conflict and argument can make people horny.

Now I don't tell this to everybody, but sometimes certain videogames that are hard and have a lot of tension in them - trying to solve something, makes me horny.

He is probably just trying to make up with you - arguments - male dominance, and sexual assertion - aggressive styles - he probably 'does you' like a maddog in these times.

If you think it's all men, you must be cheating on your husband!

Answer 9

To a man everything is o.k. and back in balance when he finds his wife responding to sex after a disagreement. This is his way of saying "I'm sorry, let me make you feel better". If you refuse sex, then he will know you are still angry or resentful.

Answer 10

I strongly suggest you put down the anger quickly and get into the make-up fuc*...they are nothing short of fantastic! IT is the old..."I thought I might never get it again because we were breaking up" syndrome. Unfortunately, once on this carousel, it takes bigger and bigger fights to achieve the same intensity in the make-up fu*k...it is really a dangerous ride to get on....you will find that he will be picking fights just to have the make-up bit. But that is the nature of the beast.

Answer 11

It's not just men some women are like that also, fighting entices them more then regular fore play, and you get to relieve all that built up stress.