me and him were together for 2 yrs and now he is with this other ***** and he been with her for 3 yrs. they live together and he loves her,but i still love him. i lied and told people that me and him slept together to break them up but it didnt work and they are still together. we were each others first love and first sexual partners and no matter how hard i try i cannot get over him. i ve been with like 10 different guys since we broke up and they just dont compare to him. i really want him and i dont know what to do. please someone give me some advice. my friends are tired of hearing this all the time. please help me.
2006-06-24 10:34:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's time you move on with your life. You said you were sleeping with guys and comparing them to him. That behavior is not going to get anyone into your life with some promise of being worth while.
You had some good times with him, but that's now over with, you need to accept that. It's really sad you even went around spreading rumors to break them up. They found one another, they're happy, now let them move on with their lives, and so should you.
You Willl find someone that wil make you happy, but you gotta let go of the past, or you will have a harder time finding your future.
2006-06-24 11:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well,...I wouldn't go around making lies like that to break someone up. It's a very selfish thing to do and it sounds a little psychotic! I don't know how old you are but I'm guessing you are still in your teens. if you're older then that,...you need to think about yourself first! You're are setting yourself up for heart break if you obsess about a man!!! I'm sure when you least expect it a better man will come along and you'll wonder why you ever waisted your time and feelings on this guy. He has definitely moved on with his life and so should YOU!!! You are only embarrassing yourself if you worry about this guy every minute and every time you meet someone else. Good luck to you.
2006-06-24 10:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by merivel7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop all contact. Try starting your whole life over. Move to a new city, get a new job, change everything (phone number and looks). If he has the same numbers have someone tell him to get new ones as well. I am sure there is a reason why he is your ex, and you just have to recall those reasons rather then why you loved him. Look for what things made you love him and make that into a list of things you are looking for in a mate, and go for that. Don't date guys to get over him, but go out for fun. Don't look at it as a replacement, but a time for fun. In no time you will find someone who will have meaning to you.
2006-06-24 10:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by M H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been thru that before. It still haunts me when I let it. I would just move on. Now that he has moved on it is time to start your life again and be happy. When you start thinking of him, start reading a book or whatever makes you happy. In time you may never forget him but he will become a distant memory and you will have time for yourself and the next guy that comes along. And that guy you find will be better than the first.
2006-06-24 10:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by koko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok gurl one question Did you break up with him or did he break up with you? If you broke up with him and still love him then why the h**l did you break up with him in the first place and if he broke up with you then why did he break up with you and if I were you I would kick the other girls a** and beat the living s**t out of him!!!! HAve Fun:)
2006-06-24 10:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on - forget about him. If you keep dwelling in the past, you're going to end up hurting yourself more and more.
2006-06-24 10:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Davey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think how better it would be without him....do u want a guy that would break ur heart like that again!!!
2006-06-24 10:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why
2006-06-24 10:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋