" How come guys is so voilet to women & Try to be in control when they say you're they property when you get married to them.
2006-06-24 10:30:58 · 39 answers · asked by "BadGirl" 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Am just wanna know anyone going through this situation here.
2006-06-24 10:45:24 · update #1
Many can be like that, but many others are not. You must pay more attention when selecting the guys you create a relationship with, and beware for a long time to see potential risks before they happen.
Also, make it clear from the beginning. If he cheats only once, you go away. He loses you. Simple, clear, and you'll get more serisous guys.
Good luck!
2006-06-24 10:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by king76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like that.
But those that are, its because they have some masculine mental defect. They don't like themselves, so they harass someone weaker than them for the feeling of power. Sometimes they cheat just for the sake of hurting, and othertimes its just so they feel wanted... They often don't realize how much a woman can love.
Women shouldn't let that happen, but often they love the guy too much to understand what's going on.
2006-06-24 10:35:44 · answer #2 · answered by Velocity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why guys are violent to women is because when they was growing up, they probably seen their father hit their mother or they seen somebody else do it to partner.The reason why guys lie is that they figure that the person that they so called love might leave them or they dont know what to do if she leaves him.The cheating part maybe they got so used to the same person they have always been,maybe they are arguing too much or maybe they way she look.
2006-06-24 10:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by chardonay_honeyluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like the way you describe. You simply haven't found the right ones. I happen to have an awesome fiance who is my best friend. You can find the same. Don't give up and believe that there really are some good guys out there.
2006-06-24 10:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They actually think that!? Oh hell no! I wouldn't take that ****! I am no one's property! Sorry, I feel much better now. Anyways, they lie and cheat when either you won't do something they want you to, or when the relationship starts falling appart. But the whole property thing, I'm not so sure of, and I will not have it when I'm married! >:(
2006-06-24 10:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Shy n' Sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because stupid girls put up with it...as if they had no choice in the deal. What the hell is going on with girls today? Why are you all so desparate to have a boy friend. do you measure your self worth by whether or not you are single??? Wise up, honey..cut him free with one big whop. And don't put out so quickly for the next one. Some day, girls will learn AGAIN, that it is not what guys get that keeps them hanging on, it is what they DON' T get that keeps them trying.
2006-06-24 10:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when u get married to someone u are basically there life and they are a part of u but some men cheat because they feel they dont deserve u or they cheat cus theya re lookin for more in the relationship and maybe u are not givin him as much attention he wants
2006-06-24 10:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
About your first statement: IF THEY LOVE, THEY WILL NOT CHEAT; so, they don't love anybody.
About your second statement: I DIDN'T UNDERSTOOD IT. Do you mean why guys get violent with their wives when they get married? and why they feel like their wives are their property? If this is what you are referring to..., it is all about you, girls. In your hands are our lifes. Keep this in your mind, RECORD IT IN YOUR HEART.... We, guys do whatever YOU let us to do, and this is in all aspects of a relationship. Again, GUYS DO WHATEVER GIRLS LET THEM TO DO; it is so simple.
I dream with the day where girls respect themselves, give them the high value that God has given them, understand the power that they have in their hands, figure out how wise they are, how wonderful and great creatures they are, OH MY!!!
2006-06-24 10:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by dioshy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do this because they were brought up wrong, they didnt have the love that we have, they were abused by thier parents or something. men who hurt women have low self esteem and are control freaks shouldnt be in any kid of relationship and they hide that when we meet them, after they are comfotable they show thier true colors, so in a way we are tricked into the relationship and before we know it is to late.
2006-06-24 10:42:45 · answer #9 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you cheat on someone it's a basic yes or no action and answer so when you are doint it,it's like you actually doing but your not.like a positive and negative thing you feel me.it's the attraction and lust for the person your cheating wiht that should get to you the most
2006-06-24 10:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋