how do i tell her shes hurting me emotionally?
2006-06-24 10:30:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Are you certain you are reading her actions correctly as teasing and flirting? If you are "struggling" with lesbianism, this could be a swayed thought of that process. True friends are hard to find. If she is strong for you in many other ways, back off from any affections/ advances you feel could be sexual and hopefully she will get the hint. However, keep the conversation side open. Talk openly about your feelings and if she's a true friend she will stick by you, if not---it's tough but you have to let her go. Good luck.
2006-06-25 02:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand in question. Your boyfriend knows that you are struggling with lesbianism. But, she teases/flirts with you? I thought you were talking about your boyfriend? Not your girlfriend. I'm confused. Perhaps you would get better answers if you wrote a clearer question?
2006-06-24 10:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't struggle with lesbianism - GO FOR IT!!! There are PLENTY of lesbians out there - lovely ladies and strong cuties, too. ALL OF THESE women are out there and they are looking to meet other women. So don't worry about your friend. Being gay isn't always easy, but you handle it better as you go. Don't lt anyone get to you, not even your friends. Tell your friend that you are who you are and she needs to deal with who she is. Tell her "IF YA DON'T WANT THE PEACHES, DON'T SHAKE THE TREE!" And then tell her to either come out or shut up.
2006-06-24 11:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your "best friend" is flirting with lesbianism. Make some new girlfriends that don't flirt with you. You don't have to dump your flirty friend, just broaden your circle of friends and spend more time with those that don't hurt you, intentional or not.
2006-06-24 10:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by Hums2oldies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be blunt and tell her, she's not thinking about the results of her actions. If you're actually attracted to her warn her that one day you're going to call her bluff and if she doesn't stop then maybe she's trying to come to terms with who she is also and is to chicken s**t to just admit it. if she doesn't stop then lay one one her. maybe that's what she's waiting for anyway.
2006-06-24 11:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by Ronnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understood... bestfriend, not boyfriend.
maybe she isn't struggling, but is curious. you could try talking about it with her, and who knows (?) maybe she wants to try something.
but really, flirting is fun. being sexual and provocative with platonic friends makes everyone feel good. being flirted with is supposed to make you feel desirable and attractive. it does not necessarily mean that anyone is getting busy (or really wants to). i flirt with most of my close friends, male and female. it is enjoyable for it's own sake.
2006-06-24 10:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship, no it is not risky....my contacts merely this week helped me turn my head removed from the darkness and in direction of the easy....it is not delusional in any respect, yet a certainty.
2016-10-31 10:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her really trashed and see what happens. Maybe she is gay/bi and isn't quite ready to come out to you or herself. If she's smashed enough I'm sure you'll both figure it out :D
2006-06-24 13:04:57 · answer #8 · answered by Peter Pan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Be open and honest. If she acts like an ***, then she is not your friend.
2006-06-24 10:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs.Foster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go use dirty needles and give yourself aids and die,this will solve your friend issues.
2006-06-24 10:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋