she says she only did it because she was hurt. I only dumped her because i was afraid of marriage, and needed some time alone to think. I realized i want to marry her and she took me back and now we are happy together, but it hurts what she did when i was gone...should i be angry? she says i do not have the right.
2006-06-24 10:10:09 · 7 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i agree with her, you don't have the right, after all, you DID dump her, so, she NEVER cheated on you for the fact that she was not with you. you f**ked up, not her.
2006-06-24 10:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by Camaro 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
so in two month she slept with 3 guys after you dumped her to get some time to think about marrying her. and you are wondering if you should be angry. the only thing that you should be angry about is that you decided to marry her. The fact that in 2 months she was able to be with 3 other guys means that she may not care for you as much as you think. In a serious relationship where marrage was being discussed and both partys had deep feelings for eacher. it would take more time then that for the person that was dumped to consider dateing someone else so sleeping with someone would be out of the question. do not be suprised if you find out that she has been cheating on you the whole time.
2006-06-24 17:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by Forever Night 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really love her any less? you dumped her because you were scared. if you would have just manned up and talked to her about it, instead of acting like a little boy, it wouldn't have happened. and no, you don't have the right to be angry. that is how she dealt with you hurting her, get over it.
2006-06-24 17:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are back together with her now.... it means you are not that hurt, is that man pride isn't? just let it go.or let her go.
You can hold that on her for the rest of your lives.just forget about it, she never cheated on you while you were together right?
this all happend while you were appart? yes well really by the rules of relationship you cant pay the rent if you are not renting wich means she was free to do what ever she wanted while the relationship was over....i was separated from my husband for a year and he slept with other girls i was with others guys and today you know what we do? we don't talk about it... we dont mention it. when we got together we said it once and that was it. ppoint clear start new is just what is its start new,,,,,,, good luck.
2006-06-24 17:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems she did it to hurt you right back. I'm sure she wasn't thinking clearly. Let me put it this way, what if the shoe were on the other foot? Should she be angry at you?
2006-06-24 17:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Ciarli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were broken up at the time, then no you don't have to be angry. You dumped her for having second thoughts, she didn't dump you.
2006-06-24 17:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you did dump her, rather then tell her you needed place, therefore putting some restrictions and limitations on dating others. But, damn that was some h-o-e type s-h-i-t!
2006-06-24 17:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by They Love ME......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋