I've been friends with this guy for a long time. He and I have always found entertainment out of pool parties, fourwheelers, parks, and movies. The whole works. Then one night we were watching a movie together when he gets too personal. He was handsy and all, and he aimed to sleep with me, I guess, but then I turned around and made him get away. So then he got pissed and left. Haven't been able to talk to him in a civil way in...forever. I want to be his friend, but just that. I tried to talk things out with him, but he's still angry. I've given him time to cool off and it's just not working. So please, how do I get my friend back?
2006-06-24 09:45:07 · 7 answers · asked by pompoms 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
once guys reach this point it's almost impossible to be their friend! PLus he's probably more embarassed about the way he acted then anything else if I were you I'd give my friend sometime to forget what happened and see if he still wants to be friends! good luck!
2006-06-24 09:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like a lot of the same things. It is absolutely possible to have a sexual friendship. If you both like sex, and like to be together, then have sex. It's JUST SEX!!! Coming is fun! Having kids at 17 isn't fun so if you do it, watch out.
If you have been around each other a lot, and you have become very comfortable with him, he may see some of your actions as YOU coming on the HIM and now he's confused about your relationship and may think you are just a tease.
2006-06-24 09:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you just wont get your friend back can you see that the reason he was your friend was because he was looking for a relationship with you? maybe is best that you let him go his way so he could find him self a girl that feels the same way for him because if your friend was suddenly to find a girlfriend you were going to loose the friendship anyhow,you dont think the other girl would accept a "girl friend". but i would tell him look i didnt know that was you were looking for maybe some how you misunderstood our friendship i really do miss you,can we be friends? you can try that but i doubt that will work,his male pride is hurt here and you have to be a male to understand that one i can only tell you about it but i still dont get it cause im a girl too.
if you can't look at him any other way but for a friend my advice is to let him go.time will heal his pain. but you have to keep distance for that to happend.
2006-06-24 09:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break the bad news, but a guy who gets angry when you say no and stays angry is very immature and/or a total jerk. You need friends who respect you.
2006-06-24 09:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can't be "just best friends" with girls.
If one guy hangs around you all the time (and he is not gay) he is interested in you.
This is a common theme in tv and movies.
2006-07-07 07:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by Existentialist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk it out with him. If he's a real friend, he'll understand. Get him somewhere where he can't run.
2006-06-24 09:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by omg its me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just forget about him ! If he is not repecting you than he is not a good friend
2006-07-08 07:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋