WHY do men hate fat woman?

Question

WHY MOST MEN HATE FATTY GIRLS AND
NEVER HAVE DATE WITH THEM?
WHATS WRONG WITH FAT WOMAN? IS IT SHE JUST FAT AND THATS ALL?

Answer 1

FIGHT THE POWER SISTER!!!! I SAY THE SAME WHY, WHY AND WHY!HUM...GUYS U ALL BETTER ANSWER HER QUESTION TODAY! ITS NOT HOW THEY LOOK BUT WHAT THE ARE INSIDE OF THEM! GIRL WHO ASKED THIS QUESTION FIGHT THE POWER!!!!

Answer 2

Not all men hate fat women. There's actually quite a few that love big boned woman. A lot of them don't like it because it's not healthy and it's a major turn off when their with someone who's huge and eating a super size meal out at fast food resturants. Men want there woman healthy. There's nothing wrong with a chunky woman.

Answer 3

not all men do but yes many do.
it is instinctual to seek a female mate that can carry a baby and still pick fruit or gather other foods on the run. she must have wide hips for birth yet narrow waist to show she does not need a lot of food and can run fast. she must be agile to run and escape and survive, have big breasts to feed the babies.
these are biological imperatives of male homo sapiens and most other primate mammals. fat women SEEM to be slow and ungainly, hard to keep fed, not able to care for children or gather food or run. just a burden that does not pay to take on.
all this is way deep in subconscious primative brain, not the higher parts of the brain, but that is what runs the mens preferences in female forms.

we are not much evolved since cavemen days.

there has also developed a social stigma based on these crude reasons being in effect for thousands of year and getting cultural reinforcement.
evolutionaryly , the few mutant men that originally prefferred and chose fat wifes in cavemen days, never were able to successfully breed because their fat wives either ate all the food while the babies starved, or could not gather enough food or got eaten by a tiger because they could not run fast or something. maybe fell out of trees trying to get fruit and could not get up.
so genetically the skinny-girl loving men had more babies and they lived long enough to make more skinny-girl loving men etc etc. it is just mother nature.
all the fat loving men perished or died out.
there are a few mutants ( men) that have been born since those days that now have learned to love fat women for their other good traits. warm, cozy, good in cold climates. will work hard for food.
et5c etc many have good jobs with the government or can get welfare checks. So do not get discuraged. just keep looking. and get a good job. learn to be pleasing personality.

Answer 4

It's not that men hate fat women. On the contrary. For example, my brother has been married four times, cheated on all wives and every single one (married & on the sly) have been at least 250 lbs.

It is society that dictates what is acceptable and what is not. Models are tall, anorexic appearing and in some cases bullemic, addicted to laxatives and other chemicals that curb their appeite. In order to wear the famous maker clothing lines, they must be tall and thin in order to promote the lines that the designers design. In addition, tall thin people promote (give-off) an image of self-control and self confidence. These are traits everyone wants to posess. Maybe men think that if they lack these traits, having a woman that does might make up for their lack of self esteem.

Another thought: heaviness promotes disease, could be caused by emotional problems, might be a lack of general cleanliness. Who knows what men think? Don't just have tunnel vision. Look at the big picture and figure out who is #1. Might surprise yourself.

Finally, growing up in the sixties, my nickname from my father was "Twiggy." If you don't know who she is, do an internet search. At the age of seven, I was taking my mother's diet medications because I thought if I was thin, my father would love me more and pay more attention. He died when I was seventeen after years of silence between us. I went from 116 to 78 lbs. I was 5'4". People would make fun and ask if I was from Eithiopia. And I am caucasion. After years and years of therapy, I found the secret. Happiness comes from within. Not from food, material things etc. I live for the happiness I receive from my own accomplishments. If my happiness were dependent on approval from society, a man, etc., I would still be more of a basket case than I am today.

Hope this helps.

Answer 5

Unfortunately, most men are visually stimulated and with the television, magazines and the media pushing weight loss and beautiful models it just creates an unrealistic norm for the average woman to attain.
Most younger guys get this fantasy, dream girl in their heads and look for a woman that fits that image.

Men that are looking for that ideal outward beauty will eventually find out that it's the inside person that will truly make them happy.

Don't bother with guys that are superficial and be happy with who you are and what makes you happy for your peace and sanity.
If you're still worried about what others think of you then get signed up to a gym, eat nutricious meals and get in shape.

But please don't consider gastric by-pass surgery unless you and your doctor think that is the best alternative for a longer life.

Answer 6

The other day there was a question from another person on here asking if any women would date an "ugly fat man" I said exactly what u just said....Men would not date a women that is overweight...so why are women expected to be "kinder" and more understanding to men being overweight?

Answer 7

personaly i dont hate anyone, especial any women but, i do work hard to eat right and sacrafice on deserts and such so i can maintain a good weight and i would like to be with someone with the same type of disipline as myself( i know not all fat is from eating disorders ) but most of the way people eat is not good cause its much easier...go to your local fast food place and watch the waistilines of the peolple who come in.....then look at the tv commercial for the same place and all the actors oare skinny..media again.....

Answer 8

Lets be honest, its a superficial world and everyone wants to be with the most attractive person they can find and its also nice to show off what you can attain. Lots of guys enjoy bigger girls. Most of them will sleep with anyone that will have them. But they just dont want their friends to see them doing this because it will lower their opinion of them. Not saying its right, but thats how it is.

Answer 9

Because men don't want a women that does not take care of there selves, a too fat or too skinny women isn't healthy that's why! Are you asking because your fat? I'm happy I'm skinny and beautiful!!!

Answer 10

Not all men hate fat women...you might try looking at some of the BBW dating websites if you're looking for someone who likes bigger women.

Answer 11

I don't know where you get that info! It's all in how you carry yourself. I'm 5'7 and 280 with a fiance who's 6'2 and 230. That man loves every inch of me. I'm not gross or disgusting. I'm a very attractive plus sized black woman...I 've never had a problem getting QUALITY men...