FOR GUYS ONLY : why would a guy cheat on his wife?

Question

....especially if he says they have a good life together...great home, nice friends, they love each other......

the most ironic part is that he has an average to low libido anyway !!!!

Answer 1

I think this question needs a real answer but I'm not sure if I am the right one to give it or not. I'll try.

I am a man and I have been married 4 time and had two long term live-ins. Two of them I really liked and wished they never got away but you know how women are. they get bored and find a new more exciting man and run off. Both sides have the same rights. I have no idea of what my lady did while she was in Thailand for 2 months but hey it is her life and I have no right to tell her how to live it. I never question her on anything she does while she is away. And she never questions me on what I do while I am away. If either male or female wants to have a quickie is there really anything wrong with it? Don't they come home and give you the best part of their lifes? Don't they spend their money on the happyness of the other like buying a new home or helping them pay for their car? A married couple can go for a year easly with out having anything in the bedroom together. After a while of that both sides will as you call it cheat. It is not because they don't love each other. It is because they just have the need to feel something new. I have been with a few married women and they are still with their hubby and they are very happy and so is their hubby. I agree there might be problems if hubby ever found out but why does he need to know. This was a one time thing and I think may have helped a marrage. With out outside connections you will end up in divorce because you just simply got tired of each other. Over controlling your partner will force them to cheat as well. I myself would start looking for someone else if I had a lover who tracked me day and night and ask where was I as and was on my rear end all the time. She would have to go. So yup I would cheat because who cares. I wanted rid of her anyway. I agreed to marry you not be your slave and report with paper work of why I am 5 minutes late getting home from work. Sorry boys and girls, but you make the other be it guy or gal cheat.

I really like the woman I have but I really don't like her in bed. She can just turn me off and she is a very nice looking woman and could have been an asian model. We get along great and we care for each other and will defend each other to the bitter end. Just are not compatable in bed. So in a case like this what do you do? Divorce and loose the best thing you both ever had because of some dumb rules that some weak minded person lead us to believe of how it should be or do you do what it takes to keep your lifes together.

Seems most people want to brag about having sex with someone else and is so tacky.

Enjoy your life in what ever way you have to. Who cares what someone else things. They can go on with their way with their closed minded views and see if they can be happy just like you can. Or you can stay together and be happy. Remember it is 50/50 always. what one can do so can the other.

Answer 2

I know it's for guys only but these guys are making me sick. Because the wife isn't hot or exciting enough. Get the **** over it. The guy takes the vow same as the woman. If he doesn't think she is hot or exciting then he shouldn't marry her. Guys cheat for the same reason they play video games. Because they aren't man enough to deal with real life and need to escape into fantasy where they can be the big bad he-man.

Answer 3

If a guy truly loves their wife they would not cheat on her what so ever. SOme guys are players and the don't have the true love for their wife or GF and they should not be in a commited relationship. I have never cheated on a partner and if I was single I don't mind having causal sex or whatever but if I am in a serious relationship its just my loved on thats it.

Answer 4

a man cannot eat the same food all the time. a single grass for a lifetime result in lack of nutrient. his DNA will alarm him, and result in some kind of craving, which is very hard to describe. some craving blind the men and block his logic.
many men (not all) need variations/ have to eat different grass/vegetable for their diet occassionally (but easily turn into 'often', cause it is highly addictive).
but for men to satisfy this need by building a new kitchen will be very troublesome, eventhough some men would have more than 2 permanent kitchens. some like to have takeway fast food, simple, clean, easy and satisfying.
they are not cheating, just satisfying certain biological need... lol

Answer 5

Women just don't understand that a man can't control what his penis wants! Seriously, if a guy cheats knowing this would upset his wife then he doesn't really love her. I would love to bang hotties non stop but I took a vow and would be letting myself down more than her.

Answer 6

He either loves to gamble or he is just basically unhappy. Of course some guys are just overly-active and need to be hit in the head with a tack-hammer every now and again.

Answer 7

It's like vanilla ice cream. It's good stuff, but would you want to eat it every day for the rest of your life when there are 30 other flavors?

Answer 8

I am not a guy but guys cheat because they cheat. Look at Hugh Grant he had the most beautiful woman and cheated on her with a sleezy hooker

Answer 9

cheaters cheat. That's the way it is. I see it over and over. Perfectly happy people going out on their spouses just for sport sex, or love, or positive reinforcement. It fills a void that the spouse CANT.

Answer 10

A guy would only cheat on his wife if he doesn't truly love her.