You thought somebody is your best friend,but (s)he actually spreed rumors about you,hated you...?
2006-06-24 09:23:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
For a wee bit while I thought you're starting another song.. lol... pardon me
It happened to me, and it hurt me very very much, I cried many days and nights. Thing is the person doing it is a family member who's good at convincing others.
But one thing about me is very soon I'll rise from the depth of my sorrows and carry on with my life.
If ppl gonna spread lies about you, that's it - they are "lies", They've gotta make up more "lies" to cover the ones that been discovered. Very soon, there won't be enough good lies and the "truth" will slap them so hard, they'll spin out the whole truth and nothing but the truth..........
So, don't humble yourself to traitors like these. Carry on with pride and dignity.
2006-07-05 20:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by annmohdali 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it happened to me when I was about 9 years old. Then she started to bully me, but not in public, only when she, her best friend and I were alone (like when I walked back to my house) for 3 years. I still hate her and her so called best friend for that, although I haven't seen them since I'm in secondary school.
2006-06-25 02:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww thats terrible it happens to alot of people, ignore the rumors if the rumors dont quit then tell your school principal or your boss or your parents.
2006-07-05 20:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by mamas_grandmasboy06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep and it is a totally shitty feeling. you stick up for someone everyone else hates, make people get to know her, let her move into you home as a lodger - then she waits until you go away and drips evil poison into the ears of someone else you THOUGHT was a friend - who you never hear from again - but bump into a couple of years later who says she realised that she was wrong but would not tell you what was said .................. how bloody complicated and evil is that????????????? surname of BATES - anagram = BEAST
2006-06-24 10:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by Sally J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i had a best friend well so i thought, but she was only friends with me to get what wasnt hers,, my man. didnt work though so i always wonderd if she thought it was all worth the friendship for i was a great friend to her. i say her loss. i ended up marrying my man and had one less back stabbing friend, id say i came out on top when her plan back fired.
2006-07-01 05:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by abadkittyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres more 2 faced people in the world than anything,you can"t trust hardly any1 these days,thats why i dont bother having a best mate anymore
2006-07-04 11:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by theblackwitch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once when I was quite young. In hindsight I realized that I should have seen it coming. It can throw you, but you just need to be a bit more intuitive in your relationships.
2006-07-05 14:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by riddletricia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just give people like that enough rope to hang themselves. Tell them something that you tell no one else even if you have to make it up, then you know who spread the rumour and they are left hanging by their own peace of rope
2006-07-04 23:05:32 · answer #8 · answered by Chippers. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and I say the only true friend you have is yourself. So don't tell anyone anything that you don't want people knowing because it will get spread!
2006-07-01 05:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that happened to me at school. i was heartbroken at the time but now i believe i'm better off not being friends with that particular person. be strong, it wont hurt forever, you're better off without people like that x
2006-06-24 11:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by annie06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋