my hubby and i have been seperated for 6 months and now he wants back into mine and our childrens; life what s

Question

he in the past has had problems with drugs and alcohol but is now "living clean" and wants his family back/

Answer 1

Give him lots of time to prove himself, then if you're interested, consider it. Move slowly though. He's probably just horny right now, and is saying what you want to hear to get back into the house, and in your bed. Proceed slowly!

Answer 2

That's a hard ? to answer.. coming from someone who has close family members who r currently drug users I would say to take things slowly.. You have your children to think about. They don't need to be around that kind of life style.. But be supportive of him, if u kno that he really has changed then be there for him and let him kno that u and the kids love him and want to help him rebuild his life. make sure that he's doing the things he needs to do to stay clean and sober.. Good Luck to you and ur family.. God Bless

Answer 3

If you want him back and if you trust his new life, then yes. But make positively sure that it is right for the kids. You can get over it if he left again, but that is their dad and they don't need to see it if the relationship turns bad. I would let him start coming over for dinner and time with the family and take things slow. If that doesn't work out, then all you lost is time. If he is decent to the kids, then nothing was lost with them.

Answer 4

If you have to ask, the answer is no. .... or yes....or maybe. How in the world can anyone answer this question but you? Have you thought of "he loves me, he loves me not" with a daisy flower? Seems it would be just as useful to me.

Answer 5

give him a second chance and with that u can also assess urself, at least u have given him the chance

Answer 6

I AM GOING THHROUGH THE SAME THING.JUST BE CAREFUL BECAUSE THEY CAN GO BACK AT ANY TIME.